Honor Perfected

She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
Proverbs 31:26

Lemuel goes to great lengths, and many verses, to describe the ultimate wife. This is one verse that sticks out to me above all others. It clearly shows how we should deal with others. If we constrain our words to those spoken with wisdom vice malice, jealousy and the assorted other sinful motivations, we would never have to regret any spoken word. Likewise, if we base our comments upon kindness, our words will be better received by others.

How often I have hastily spoken words that I later regret! The pain caused by malicious words and the advice unheeded due to the tone of the words cause my heart to regret ever speaking them.  Unfortunately, we can not unspeak our words - once spoken they have a life of their own. Often repeated but never forgotten. What a better life we would have if we never had to regret a spoken word!

 Clearly the advice in the verse above is applicable to all of us. So as we contemplate resolutions for the coming year, let's ask God to help us follow the advice above. The results will honor our actions and more importantly, honor God.

 

Low-Profile Honor

The spider taketh hold with her hands, and is in kings' palaces.
Proverbs 30:28

Agur lists the spider as one of the smallest but wisest creatures on earth. Perhaps we can learn wisdom from such a innocuous creature? The common household spider spends its day working to build a web in order to survive. There are no web building competitions or recognition for their hard effort. Yet they continue daily to maintain their web. They have no regard for their surroundings - whether it be a dark closet or a brightly lit cathedral their level of effort is the same. Even in the king's palace listed in the verse above, their focus remains the same: build and maintain their web.

What if we approached our Christian life in the same manner? Focused solely on the fundamentals of maintaining a close walk with Christ. No distractions based upon our performance and no regard for our surroundings. I can only imagine the results would be astounding! We are often too worried about the acceptance of others to worry about acceptance by our Savior.

The spider teaches us well in how to obtain low profile honor: if we focus on the fundamental of serving Christ, he will honor us in ways we could never imagine!

 

The Prodigal Son

Whoso loveth wisdom rejoiceth his father: but he that keepeth company with harlots spendeth his substance.
Proverbs 29:3

This verse reminds me of the parable of the Prodigal Son (Mark 15:11-31). We are all familiar with how the son spent his inheritance and ended up with the pigs. But at low point of his life, he recognized the error of his ways and went to repent to his father. And we remember how the father celebrated his return while the older son fumed and fussed about the father's reaction.

The question is: which son displayed wisdom? While we love to look down our noses at the sinful squandering of wealth, didn't we do the same? Christ offered us peace and eternal life but we did not partake until we recognized the wretched situation we were in and repented. Compare this to the older brother who continued the ritual of service but never found the value of forgiveness.

Let's ensure that we know the joy of forgiveness and not just the ritual of service. For forgiveness is truly a cause of celebration and causes our Father to rejoice.

 

Cheap Sins

To have respect of persons is not good: for for a piece of bread that man will transgress.
Proverbs 28:21

My father used to warn me of evil people saying that they would "sell their Mother for a dollar".  As a young boy, it frightened me to view the person as sinister, no matter how fake their smile. When questioned, Dad explained that anyone who would quickly show favoritism would quickly choose to do wrong. Solomon describes it a little differently above but the jist is the same. Those who show respect of persons will sin for smallest of monetary values.

Only later did I realize it is not about the money but about human nature. It is our nature to sin unless God is in control of our lives. One aspect that changes when He is in control is that we no longer show respect of persons but rather show the love of Christ to all.

Are there areas in your life where God doesn't have control? If so, we are powerless to keep from sinning in that area. Only with God in control are we able to reverse the habits of human nature. Surrender your actions to God and He will prevent you from cheaply sinning.

 

Tough Love

Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.
Proverbs 27:6

Solomon describes wounds from a friend are faithful - but how can someone who cares for you, harm you? Perhaps, that is the true measure of friendship - someone who is willing to tell you what you don't want to hear! Many will simply agree with us verbally but will withhold there true opinion, simply not to hurt our feelings. However, a friend will "call a spade a spade", even if it is not what we want to hear.

One additional factor in a friendship is the delivery of such bad news - it is not with contempt or humiliation. But rather with love. And if that love is based in Christ, it is a healing love, regardless of the severity of the topic.

 

Fuel For The Fire

As coals are to burning coals, and wood to fire; so is a contentious man to kindle strife.
Proverbs 26:21

As winter weather grips us in its frigid grasp, we are all familiar with keeping the heat going! Solomon describes the need to continue to feed a fire by adding coal or wood in order to keep a fire going. And the same is applicable to the strife in our life - if we remove the fuel, the strife ceases to exist.

When we are frustrated and angry with another, any action or word seems to flare up the frustration. However, the smoldering embers are within us, not by their actions- if we remove the source, the anger goes away. But how? While it is often difficult to forgive and forget, we can achieve peace by turning over our frustration to God. When we simply give it up to Him, he removes the smoldering embers within us. Then, any further action by the other individual ceases to cause us to flare up. David promises peace and prevention of being offended in Psalms 119:165-168 if we follow His commandments.

Do you have a simmering frustration with others? Turn to God and he will remove the embers of frustration and provide a peace beyond understanding. Philippians 4:6-8.

 

Share The Good News

As cold waters to a thirsty soul, so is good news from a far country.
Proverbs 25:25

We are all familiar with the deep sense of refreshment of an ice cold drink of water on a hot summer day. Nothing compares to the deep penetrating coldness that seems to replenish us from the inside out. The same can be said of the good news heard by the wise men on the night when Christ was born. While they traveled far, it paled in comparison to the deep-penetrating refreshment they felt upon seeing the Savior of the World! Have you experienced the same penetrating change in your life? If so, you know first-hand how refreshing the new perspective puts on your life.

As you share your gifts with others today, why not share the refreshing good news of Jesus Christ with those you love? His gift of salvation will long out-last any earthly gift we can share. And they will share the same refreshing experience that we felt when we first met our Savior. Share His love with others - it is His birthday we are celebrating, so why not make Him our Guest of Honor?

 

The Joy Of Giving

For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee.
Proverbs 23:7

As we share our gifts this Christmas season, is there sharing in our heart? Are we cheerfully sharing or are we begrudgingly giving? No matter how cheap or expense the gift, the value is based upon the manner in which it is shared. We have all received gifts from our children that would never compare to the exquisite gifts from a department store but they are treasured more. Why? Because we know they were made with love.

Ensure that your gifts are deeply appreciated - not for their cost but their value. Share them with the love of Christ in your heart.

 

Scrooge's Nightmare

Rob not the poor, because he is poor: neither oppress the afflicted in the gate: For the LORD will plead their cause, and spoil the soul of those that spoiled them.
Proverbs 22:22-23

Solomon cautions us against mistreating the poor and afflicted for the Lord will plead their cause. What a timely reminder during the holiday season! While we dash to and fro seeking the perfect gift for our loved ones, how much effort has been expended to assist those less fortunate in life?

Are they a part of our holiday gift-giving? Do we include consideration for their necessities of life in our long list of electronic gadgets and latest rage for gifts? I often wonder, which will be more appreciated? Which will have a lasting impact upon some one's life?

It is frightening to consider that the Lord will plead their issue. How will you respond to his challenge? Can you turn your head or cross the street to ignore Christ? Will you push Him away? Remember Jesus words in Matthew 25:40 - "Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me."

Don't be a Scrooge this Christmas. Share his blessing with those around you. You will be assured not to have Scrooge's nightmares but the blessings of our Creator!

 

The Wrong Congregation

The man that wandereth out of the way of understanding shall remain in the congregation of the dead.
Proverbs 21:16

I am not a big fan of horror movies but the grisly image painted by Solomon shakes me to the bone! The image of a church full of dead people is literally frightening! Can you imagine waking in a room full of silent skeletons? No matter how brave your heart, it would be more than a heart could stand!

Solomon's strict warning against leaving the way of salvation is just that: a frightening concept. Imagine, knowing the pleasure of walking with God only to choose to depart from His way? What would prompt a person to do such a thing? Simply put, choosing our way versus His way. It is frightening but a reality with those who choose not to follow Christ.

If you have loved ones who have not accepted Christ, renew your efforts to lead them out of the dead and into the living! The friends they keep will not be so frightening!

 

The Best Present Under The Tree

 The just man walketh in his integrity: his children are blessed after him.
Proverbs 20:7

We often struggle for just the right gift for our children. Something that is memorable, highly desired and possibly sentimental are attributes we use when seeking the ultimate present for our own special children. Perhaps, Solomon describes the best gift of a lifetime in the verse above.

What parent does not desire to see their children blessed by the Lord? While we have limited resources to provide for our children, the Lord has infinite resources and abilities to bless our children! But the price can not be placed on our credit card for payment after the holidays. It requires daily payment in a non-monetary fashion - our behavior. I was blessed with a father who set the example of living a Christian life and more importantly taught me how to recover when I failed to follow Christ. While he gave me many wonderful gifts over the years. His personal example of living a Christian life was the best gift I ever received from my parents.

What are we giving our children today? Are we coping with the stresses of life and the holidays? Do we unveil our bitterness towards others within the confines of our home? Do we earnestly seek and involve God in our daily life? While we personally benefit from following Christ, the blessings to our children is promised in the verse above.

Give the ultimate gift to your children by submitting you will to His will. It is the present that will last all year and never grow old!

 

Little White Lies

A false witness will not go unpunished, and whoever pours out lies will perish.
Proverbs 19:9

We love to see liars punished, except when it is us! No one enjoys being the recipient of a lie - we feel cheated, betrayed and unloved. And we fail to understand the thought process that would allow someone we trust to lie to us. And yet, we do the same to others. However, we justify our actions by categorizing our lies into the "little white lies" area. No one will get hurt and no evil intentions are behind our misleading statements. Simply the truth is not a convenient option at the time.

I have searched the bible multiple times and have yet to locate a distinction in lies. Whether they be malicious or kind is never discussed. Simply, they are wrong. We see numerous incidents throughout the bible where lies manifest themselves into grievous problems. And I have experienced the same in my life.

One lie usually requires another to support it. Before long, we are trapped within the web of lies we have strewn and it eventually comes crashing down with horrific results. Why not resist the temptation initially so that we and others do not suffer? Our results of lying are no better than Peter denying Christ before the rooster crowed. (Matthew 26:69-75) While we may receive forgiveness from Christ, much like Peter, the pain and suffering of others is not removed.

So, as we pause to place our response in the "little white lie" category, let's pause a little longer and remain silent. Words unspoken can not harm others.

 

Wasted Riches

He also that is slothful in his work is brother to him that is a great waster.
Proverbs 18:9

While the Lord blesses us mightily, we sometimes fail to see it. Perhaps, it is because we are like the two described in the verse above. Solomon points to two methods of minimizing our wealth in blessings - laziness and wasting.

If we are lazy, we mirror the parable given by Jesus of the lazy servant (Matthew 25:14-30). Likewise, what was given by our Lord will be taken away. And the waster can deplete more than is given simply by throwing it away. No matter how much wealth is provided, it is never enough! The bottom line is that we should wisely use what is given to us to increase its worth. Paul describes many of the gifts given to us in Romans 12:4-11. And his exhortation? Do not be slothful with your gifts!

Take time to evaluate the gifts given to you from the Lord. Are you using them wisely to bring credit to our Master? If so, he will reward you upon his return!

 

A Wise Fool

Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding.
Proverbs 17:28

Solomon points out that when a fool is silent, he is considered wise and full of understanding. It is only when we open our mouth that we remove all doubt! But the temptation to speak, at times, is overpowering. Whether it be in anger or to gossip, we can't seem to keep our words to ourselves.

It is beyond my ability to determine who  is foolish or wise. However, the words that some speak clearly indicate the foolishness of their thoughts. Likewise, if I am still a fool, I consider it wise to keep my words restrained at times. For out of our heart are our thoughts and our words from our thoughts. David describes it best in Psalms 19:14 - Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer.

If our heart is pure, our words will be acceptable to God. If not, we are but speaking foolishly. Silence the critics by silencing your words. More importantly, gain approval of the One that matters most by speaking only words led by Him.

 

Healthy Sweets

Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones.
Proverbs 16:24

I have always loved pure honey. And its health benefits continue to be identified. What a winning combination - something that is sweet and good for you! Solomon compares the benefits of honey to that of pleasant words - sweet to the soul and health to the bones. We can all attest to the benefits of pleasant words - it instantly makes us feel appreciated and our efforts worthwhile. And the cost of kind words? Nothing but taking the effort to notice someone's efforts and voicing our appreciation.

Why, then, are pleasant words so rare? The next time you are in a public area, take note of how many pleasant words are exchanged vice stinging words of criticism. Dare I challenge you to the same poll within your home? We all love receiving kind words, so why do we refrain from sharing such joy with others? It is easily within our ability to spread such a healthy sweet and costs so little. Yet, such words are sometimes scarce from our lips.

I encourage you to join me in resolving to spreading cheer the old fashion way this year - by praising those around us!

 

The List Of Good And Bad

The eyes of the LORD are in every place, beholding the evil and the good.
Proverbs 15:3

As a child, I grew up listening to the song warning children that Santa Claus knew who was naughty or nice. Quite an intimidating feat for a youngster to comprehend. However, as I have grown and accepted Christ, it pales in comparison to the omniscience of God. He not only can see our behavior but he knows our heart as well. While we may be kind and smiling on the outside, he knows our true feelings. Jeremiah sums it up best: I the LORD search the heart and examine the mind, to reward each person according to their conduct, according to what their deeds deserve. (Jeremiah 17:10)

Even within my feeble mind, I shudder when I try to balance the good and bad in my life. I quickly recognize that I am not worthy of any gifts based upon my behavior. But then I have received the greatest gift of all time - God's grace. Not that I was worthy, but because he loved me! Paul is much more adept of describing God's gift of grace in Romans 5 & 6. What a gift! What a reason to celebrate and have a holiday! God's gift began with the incarnation of his one and only son on the day we celebrate as Christmas.

While we need to recognize the severity of our unworthiness, this time of the year is focused on the greatest gift to mankind - God's Son for our sins.

 

Happy Holidays

He that despiseth his neighbour sinneth: but he that hath mercy on the poor, happy is he.
Proverbs 14:21

It is the season where we hear and see the phrase "Happy Holidays" almost continuously. But unfortunately, there doesn't seem to be too much happiness amongst the crowds of people rushing around in preparation for Christmas. I believe Solomon has the answer to the dilemma in the verse above.

When we despise or have disdain for our neighbor, we sin. And happiness and sin can not live in the same heart. Whether it is over their ability to give larger gifts, their looks or wealth, we should not despise our neighbor. Happiness is not measured by assets or looks but by the contentment within the soul. I have known many destitute people that were happier than the richest people on earth. Why? Because they had the love of Christ within their heart. One jokingly said that he was happy that he didn't have to worry how to keep his wealth in such a tumultuous economy! What a different perspective than those envious of their neighbor's wealth.

And the second half of the verse clearly hits us between the eyes at Christmas. Often we are more concerned with the parity of the gifts than we are the intentions with which the gift is given. When we give with no expectation of receiving something in return, we are truly giving. Interestingly enough, my heart is usually blessed more when I give with no expectation of reciprocal gifts.

Are your holidays happy? If not, pause to evaluate your heart. Push out the despiteful (vice delightful) feelings in your heart and give to those less fortunate. You too will soon be beaming with the joy coming from the heart! Didn't Jesus give us the ultimate gift with no expectation for a reciprocal gift? That is how we should celebrate his birth, by following his example of joyful giving to others with no exchange gift required!

 

Birds Of The Feather

He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.
Proverbs 13:20

The phrase "birds of the feather, will flock together" is credited back to Plato's time. And it is similar to Solomon's discussion above - we tend to hang out with those of similar personalities. I explained to my boys the concept of "guilty by association" in that even if you do no wrong, you will be assumed to have done wrong if you associate with wrongdoers.

So is the same with our spiritual life - Paul warn us of being "unequally yoked" with non-Christians (2 Cor 6:14-18). We need to cultivate our relationships with fellow Christians so that we can encourage each other to follow His will. People do take notice of your friends and tend to judge you similarly. Are you being judged as a Christian? Do you encourage your friends to a closer walk with God? Are you comfortable discussing His Word with your friends? If not, perhaps you need to re-examine your friendships to ensure they are strengthening vice weakening your relationship with your Savior.

While we should not be too concerned with public opinion of our behavior, we must be vigilant in our relationships with others as judged by God.

 

Public Perception

A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones.
Proverbs 12:4

Too often, we judge people by what we see in their outward behavior. Unfortunately, we do not have the ability to judge a person's heart - only God can. Let me give you an example: there was a young lady who was engaged. Unfortunately, she became pregnant before the wedding. And rumors were flying that the child was not from the potential bridegroom! What a horrible situation - a young man had offered his heart and his future to a young woman who was willing to trample his love by having a child by another! Many shook their heads and agreed that it was only fitting that the young man cancel the wedding and move on to a more faithful wife. Wouldn't you agree?

But there are a couple of twists to the story. The bridegroom did not break off the engagement and the wife birthed our Savior! Quite a different situation? No, not really. We are too quick to judge others by public perception without focusing on the important part - their salvation. For you see, Mary was a virtuous woman that did bring more glory to her husband than could ever be imagined! Yet, they did not follow public perception but God's guidance.

So today, when you are tempted to judge others, pray for them instead!

 

Wrestling Pigs

As a jewel of gold in a swine's snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion.
Proverbs 11:22

The image of a pig running around with jewelry in its nose is quite preposterous. A pig uses its nose to root around in the mud more than to smell - is that where we want to place jewelry? Not really! And it reminds me of the old saying regarding lowering your standards to those of your detractors - "Don't wrestle a pig. You both get muddy and the pig likes it!"

We must use discretion in our choices each day. There are opportunities at home and in the work place where people are just itching for an argument. And many times we are tempted to jump in the argument just to prove our point. However, I have learned to question myself - "What are the benefits of arguing this point?". If you stop and think, without the emotion of the moment, you will realize that you will not sway the other individual's opinion. The only accomplishment of the quarrel is to simply demonstrate that you have a temper too! And you run the risk of saying something that you will later regret. Use discretion and walk away. It takes greater strength to walk away than to lower yourself to their level and argue uselessly.

Jesus did not debate and argue his detractors - even when his life was on the line. We should follow his example of living above the ordinary  response to temptation and not wrestle pigs!

 

Precious Memories

The memory of the just is blessed: but the name of the wicked shall rot.
Proverbs 10:7

One of my favorite hymns while growing up was "Precious Memories". While the tune was a little slow, the words have stuck with me over the years. It is these fond memories of our parents and mentors that help shape our behavior. One favorite memory I have is of our Agricultural Teacher in school. He always displayed genteel manners and lightened any mood with an appropriate joke. His love for each and every one of his students was genuine. Whenever I meet someone who went to my school, the subject invariably ends up discussing him and his wife - both school teachers with a heart for their students.

I have often wondered if any one will remember me, long after I am gone. And Solomon promises above that if we are just in our behavior, our memory will be blessed. While we are often focused on the here and now, we sometimes need to pause and think of the legacy we are leaving with our children and their peers. Will we be remembered as some one who showed the love of God to others? Or simply dismissed as someone who was too wrapped in themselves to share?

As we celebrate the greatest gift to mankind, what gift are you giving to others? Not in presents or performances but in the day-to-day life that you are living? Do you have a Godly focus on others or focused on yourself? Take a moment today to pause and re-live the precious memories others have given you. Then share them with others by creating lasting memories of kindness to others.

 

The Wise Men

Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be yet wiser: teach a just man, and he will increase in learning
Proverbs 9:9

Since it is the Christmas Season and Solomon was speaking of the wise, I thought I would review the wise men who witnessed the birth of our saviour. Of interest, it is only discussed in Matthew 2 and the number three is not addressed except in the types of gifts they brought.

More importantly, was the action of the Magi when they saw the child. Matthew 2:11 states - And when they were come into the house, they saw the young child with Mary his mother, and fell down, and worshipped him: and when they had opened their treasures, they presented unto him gifts; gold, and frankincense and myrrh.

Are we as wise as the Magi? Do we fall down and worship him or casually think of him during our church's Christmas presentation? Do we give him our most valuable gifts or simply what is left over in our wallet? When we exchange gifts at Christmas, we prefer our gifts to be close in value. How does your gift compare to that of your Savior? What do you treasure most in your life? Would you be willing to exchange it for the gift of eternal life?

We have been instructed on the proper response to our savior by the Wise Men. We can only become wiser if we heed the instructions. Take time this Christmas to exchange gifts with the One who loves you most. It isn't how much it costs that matters, but rather how much you treasure your gift to your Savior.

 

Love In Action

I love them that love me; and those that seek me early shall find me.
Proverbs 8:17

As a young man, I felt sure that I had fully mastered the art of love. Boy, was I wrong! Likewise, I thought I understood the simple concept of the verse above. However, further reading of Christ's teachings show that I still have much to learn about the verse as well.

Jesus talks of love in a different perspective in John 14:21 and John 14:23. Love is more than just emotions but actions manifested by our demonstrating our willingness to follow his commandments. Jesus stresses that it is more than just knowing his commandments but keeping them as well. It reminds me of the old phrase that "action speaks louder than words". While we may be able to quote the Ten Commandments, do we follow them?

Easier said than done? Yes, by ourselves. But look closely at both verses in John 14. Jesus recognizes the limitations of our own abilities and promises to manifest himself to us. More importantly, in verse 23 Jesus promises that both He and His Father will abide with us. Our commitment to action coupled with the presence of the Holy Trinity within us gives us the strength to overcome any worldly challenge to keeping His commandments.

Demonstrate your love today by taking the first step to follow his commandments. His presence and support will result in a love manifested within you that is beyond compare!

 

Teacher's Pet

Keep my commandments, and live; and my law as the apple of thine eye.
Proverbs 7:2

When I was going to school, the common joke was those who brought an apple to the teacher were striving to become the teacher's pet. While the teacher did not amass a pile of apples on her desk each day, there were a few of my classmates that brought goodies and gifts on a frequent basis to ensure a higher status in the classroom. The rest of us envied the benefits of such gift-giving. These were the same students who could never do wrong and were given the benefit of doubt on any marginal test answer. At times, the open admiration of the teacher was almost repulsive to the rest of us "hoodlums" that openly disdained such fawning but secretly wished we could enjoy the benefits of a personal relationship with our teachers. There was no debating the fact that certain students were pets or favored in the classroom. But in reality, they should have been - for they strove to seek the approval of the teacher vice openly demonstrating rebellion.

And we should have the same relationship with God's commandments, as described above by Solomon. When we clearly strive to please God by following his commandments, we will garner His love and support. In a world as troubling as today, what a better relationship to have than to be labeled as the Teacher's Pet. The Teacher created this world, taught us how to follow his commandments and gave us the opportunity to choose if we will follow him. Let the bully's sneer and others envy our relationship with The Teacher for we know that in Him is eternal life!

 

A Burning Issue

Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burned? Can one go upon hot coals, and his feet not be burned?                 Proverbs 6:27-28

Solomon poses "burning" questions in the verses above regarding lust in the heart. While the questions are simply answered, the concept of lust is not so easily accepted. Irregardless of the object: a woman, a bass boat or other worldly items, the results are the same. We can not have sin in our heart and not suffer the consequences. We clearly understand the consequences of getting burned physically from his scenarios above but do we practically apply the same principle to our heart? David's lust for Bathsheba cost both of them an enormous price physically, emotionally and spiritually.

So are the price of our lusts. It may start simply as noticing the attraction of another person or thing but will quickly grow out of control. Much like a fire consumes all fuel around it, lust will consume all of the peace within our heart. There is no way for it to co-exist with christian virtues within our heart. The simple but not easy solution is for us to prevent the occurrence.

We are all tempted - even Jesus was tempted by the devil (Luke 4:1-13). And it never ends, as shown in verse 13. Sometimes the attraction may be stronger than our abilities but not beyond the strength of the One who lives within us. Don't get burned by temptation but quench it with the power of Christ.

 

My Heero

His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be holden with the cords of his sins.
Proverbs 5:22

Solomon provides a graphical depiction of how we are tied up by of our sins. It reminds me of the old westerns where the heroine was tied to the railroad track with the old locomotive bearing down feverishly blowing the whistle. At the very last moment, the hero, wearing a white hat, swoops in at the very last moment to save the heroine. Afterwards, the heroine dreamily hugs the hero in appreciation.

Do we feel the same about our salvation? We are bound by our sins until we accept the gift of life by our Savior. Do we share the same grateful appreciation for our new life? As we go through the daily routine of life, we tend to forget the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom. As we celebrate His birth, let's remember the purpose of his birth - to break us free from the bonds of our sins. Take time to thank the giver of the ultimate gift this season - our freedom from sin!

 

A Broken Heart

Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.
Proverbs 4:23

A broken heart is almost unbearable. You feel sickened as if someone has wretched a knife through your chest. It is difficult to breathe and your appetite is gone. Truly a miserable place to be.

While the holiday season clamors around us, there are those who are among us with a broken heart. While they may try to hide their emptiness, they can not rid themselves of the gut wretching pain they face daily. Whether it is due to the loss of a loved one by death, divorce or other enticements, they can not share the holiday mood due to the vast sense of loss within.

Solomon cautions us to guard our heart. And we should be very careful with whom or what we share our heart. We must be judicious in the sharing of such a valuable treasure. But even with such caution, we still suffer loss at one time or another. And the pain is unbearable. David reminds us in Psalms 34:18 - The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit. What a comfort to know there is someone who know our sense of loss - didn't he watch His son die on the cross for our sins? And He is always available to listen to our sorrows. While the pain may not be completely gone, I experience relief when I share my sorrow with my Master.

Shouldn't we mirror our Savior's love to others? What a better time of the year to share something other than brightly wrapped gifts - our time and compassion with those of a broken heart. Simply stop the hectic pace and allow them to share can such a wonderful blessing! The financial cost is cheap but the rewards can be everlasting!

 

The Perfect Chrismas Present

Happy is the man that findeth wisdom, and the man that getteth understanding.
Proverbs 3:13

As the holiday rush settles in, we are continuously plagued with finding "the perfect gift" for everyone. Will they like it? Will it fit? Did we forget someone? The questions seem to never end as we stress over making sure everyone on our list has a wonderful gift.

Solomon defines the perfect gift and the results above - happiness is assured to those who find wisdom and understanding. He values it above silver and gold in the following verse. Luckily, there is no price tag, no size or weight restrictions and the inventory is endless. But there is a cost - we must put forth the effort to seek God. It can't be purchased on-line or in a department store - God has the monopoly on the inventory. Yet, he is willing to freely share it with those who seek Him.

What a better gift to give someone you love than the experience of them getting to know Jesus as their personal savior? Share his love and elevate his message above the commercial themes. If you really want to celebrate the season in a way like never before, celebrate it with someone who has just found their Savior!

 

Pulling Weeds

But the wicked shall be cut off from the earth, and the transgressors shall be rooted out of it.
Proverbs 2:22

Every gardener knows that the only way to get rid of weeds without chemicals is to remove the weed and its roots. Cut it down and the weed will rear its ugly head again - pull it up by the roots and it is gone forever. Such is the promise above regarding the wicked and transgressors. There is no promise of sustained life for those who transgress.

When God looks in our heart, does he see bed of righteousness or a plot of weeds? He is the only One capable of knowing our heart. Weeds of hatred, envy and pride can quickly take hold within our heart and choke out the flowers of love, kindness and mercy. When the first sprout of sin arises, ask the Gardner of your heart to remove it by its roots. Don't allow the weed to grow and choke out the beauty of a pure heart. Seek Him and he will rid you of the ugly weeds of sin.

 

Wormy Fruit

Therefore shall they eat of the fruit of their own way, and be filled with their own devices.
Proverbs 1:31

One of the pleasures of growing your own fruit is the joy of eating fruit fresh off the branch! You have the satisfaction of knowing how it was grown and the absence of chemicals. Nothing ruins the moment worse than taking a big bite only to find the remaining half of a worm! Satisfaction instantly turns to disgust and rejection.

Isn't our lives the same? While we may be pristine on the outside, we can be filled with worms on the inside! And when you realize the "true colors" of an individual, you experience the same disgust and rejection. Do you desire to be respected or rejected?

There is only one way to become delectable fruit - to be cleansed from the inside out. Can you mirror David's words "Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts:" (Psalms 139:23)? If not, you may be wormy fruit - ask for his forgiveness so that you may become the apple of His eye!

 

Parental Encouragement

There is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother.
Proverbs 30:11

As parents, we are often discouraged with our parenting abilities. It seems that we are just not getting through to our children. The self-incriminating questions follow: What am I doing wrong? Should I have given in? Am I being too harsh?

The verse above highlights that our children are not the first to be disobedient and disrespectful. From before the Ten Commandments, children have been exhorted to obey their parents. Jesus gives us the parable of the Prodigal Son and Paul reinforces the promise of long life to those who obey their parents. (Ephesians 6:1-3) The Bible is full of admonition to be obedient to your parents - but why? Because it is not the norm. We (too) have rebelled against our parents to some varying degree. And our children will as well.

While rebellion is to be expected, it doesn't have to be accepted. The perfect example is God's love for us. While we all have the option to accept Christ, God does not condone our sinful behavior. As parents, we should not condone our children's behavior either. But we should follow His example of correcting in a loving but firm manner. What a better way to emulate our Christian father than to follow his example in raising our children!

And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Ephisians 6:4

 

Instant Failure

A man's pride shall bring him low: but honour shall uphold the humble in spirit.
Proverbs 29:23

There is no better guarantee for failure than to allow pride to take charge. When we lose focus of Who is in charge, we lose focus of what is important. No sooner do we start patting our back than we should be prepared to fall flat on our face.

Jesus gave us numerous examples and parables of the result in pride being in charge: from the widow's mite to the proud prayer in the synagogue. Jesus repeatedly encourages us to put pride in the back seat and serve Him and others humbly. Perhaps, the best verse to summarize is Matthew 23:12: And whosoever shall exalt himself shall be abased; and he that shall humble himself shall be exalted.

Rather than being consumed with instant success which can lead to instant failure, we should stay focused on humble service to God and others!

 

Infinite Understanding

Evil men understand not judgment: but they that seek the LORD understand all things.      
Proverbs 28:5

I have often struggled with this verse for I can not easily explain how bacteria grows or how to cure cancer. So how can Solomon state that they who seek the Lord will understand all things? Have I failed to truly seek Him? Should I be worried about my salvation?

Perhaps, we can approach the verse from a different perspective. While I don't know how to create a universe, I know who did. While I can't explain how to create life, I know someone who did. And while I can't explain a love so strong it would make you willing to give up your life, I know someone who did.

In John 13:7, Jesus told Peter - Jesus answered and said unto him, What I do thou knowest not now; but thou shalt know hereafter. It is comforting to know that we may not understand everything, but we know who does.

Have you been stumped today? Are things just too hard to understand? Look to Him that has infinite understanding. Trust in Him and He will reveal the secret in due time!

 

The Oven's Aroma

Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so doth the sweetness of a man's friend by hearty counsel.
Proverbs 27:9

My least favorite place in any department store is the perfume and makeup area. There are just too many scents that are intermingled and my brain becomes overloaded and my stomach churns in confusion. Not a pleasant sight! However, singular scents and aromas evict emotions with vivid memories. I can still remember the scent of my wife's grandmother, even though she has passed on. And the pleasant memories spill forward just thinking of her scent. The same is true during this holiday season - the smell of the turkey coming out of the oven or the chocolate creations my wife makes each holiday surrounds me with a feeling of "home" which is so peaceful for the road-weary traveler I am through out the year.

As Solomon points out above, the same peacefulness is gained by strong counsel by a friend. While they may not always agree with you. You can be confident they are truly expressing their own opinion. And when an issue is resolved, peacefulness is obtained. Such honesty in opinion mingled with a love of friendship is not an ordinary occurrence. If you are blessed with such a relationship - be thankful and let them know your appreciation.

As Solomon states, in order to have such a friend - we must be a friend ourselves (Proverbs 18:24). Commit to give of yourself to others in an honest and caring manner. Then you will be welcomed as the smell of freshly-baked tea cakes coming from the oven!

 

Consider The Source

 The legs of the lame are not equal: so is a parable in the mouth of fools.
Proverbs 26:7

I don't believe Solomon was being demeaning to the lame in the verse but he was highlighting the obvious. Much like the second half of the verse. Parables were used to impart wisdom, so how could a fool impart wisdom? Seems obvious, doesn't it? But is it?

When we are experiencing challenges in our life, we tend to seek advice from others. And most are happy to give advice - it has limited impact on their lives if you choose to follow it. But we should be careful to consider the source. Do they have a biblical basis for their advice? Do they have our best interest at heart? If not, how well will the advice blend with your life's goals?

Why not seek advice from the One who always has our best interest at heart, in this life and forever more? David advises in Psalms 23:3 - He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake. When He leads us, it is for His glory not ours or others. Seek his advice and you will never be led astray.

 

Paper-Sack Trucks

Whoso boasteth himself of a false gift is like clouds and wind without rain.
Proverbs 25:14

I was a young teenager when compact pickup trucks were first introduced. The goal was for them to be economical, so they only had a four-cylinder engine. Great for gas mileage but horrible for hauling heavy loads. My grandfather called them "paper sack trucks" since he reasoned they couldn't haul more than one paper sack of goods. Needless to say, he never bought one since he viewed them as a useless mode of hauling.

Do people view us as "paper sack trucks"? Do we boast of our Christianity but fail to demonstrate His love for others? Do we belittle others instead of helping them? Do we freely give our time and resources to others without expecting something in return? If so, we are like Solomon's description above - clouds and wind without rain. We do not provide actual nourishment to the ground but simply get people's expectations heightened without delivering.

Take a close look at your actions - do you actually deliver the goods of Christianity? If not, seek the one who can help you put your actions where your mouth is. It is from Him that our strength flows to carry the load!

 

Gloat Not

Rejoice not when thine enemy falleth, and let not thine heart be glad when he stumbleth: Lest the LORD see it, and it displease him, and he turn away his wrath from him.          Proverbs 24:17-18

We all have a nemesis that continuously frustrates us. They tend to grate on our last nerve based upon their actions or words. While we strive to show Christian love to all, there are some that it seems almost impossible - based upon their behavior towards us. While we know that it would give us great satisfaction just to set them straight, just once, we know it is not the right thing to do.

And then, finally, they get what is coming to them! My immediate reaction is to rejoice in their sorrow or pain. But Solomon cautions us above to refrain from gloating over their misfortune lest the Lord turns His wrath away from them.

Such action on my part is not easy to do but I have taken a slightly different approach. David experienced the same frustrations from his enemies in Psalms 35. However, he did not gloat when the wrath of God fell upon his nemesis. Rather, he praised God (Psalms 35:28). And so should we - when God takes care of our nemesis, we should not gloat but praise Him for answering our prayers of protection!

 

The Proud Rooster

 The father of the righteous shall greatly rejoice: and he that begetteth a wise child shall have joy of him.          Proverbs 23:24

I don't think anyone could be prouder of their sons than I am of my three boys. They are healthy, smart, kind and respectful (at least to others). As they continue to mature, I am amazed at their potential and wisdom. But most of all, I am thankful they know Jesus Christ. I have been exceedingly blessed to have such great young men.

Sounds like boasting - doesn't it? Yes, I confess it is. Much like the rooster who struts in the chicken pen admiring his offspring. Nothing causes your chest to swell as much as observing the accomplishments of your children.

While I have never been to heaven, I can imagine that Jesus struts around pointing out the righteous actions of His children as well. No matter how dismal our physical condition on earth may be, if we are following His will, he will be proud of our actions.

 Look closely at the verse above, again. The father of the righteous - while I am the biological father of my children, they are born into righteousness by another Father. And He is the one who struts like a rooster when we follow His will! No matter your family situation on earth, rest assured that your Heavenly Father is always watching and crows proudly when you do well!

 

Heed The Warning Signs

A prudent man foreseeth the evil, and hideth himself: but the simple pass on, and are punished.
Proverbs 22:3

In the construction industry, we use signs and barricades to warn passersby of potential dangers. Yet, each year, numerous people are injured or lose their life due to failure to heed the warning signs. Solomon encourages us to recognize the evil and hide from it. He doesn't ask us to challenge evil's ability to ruin our life but simply leave it alone.

How often do we recognize that we are doing wrong but try to justify our actions? "Just this once" or "Everyone else does it" does not provide justification for doing something we know is wrong. Yet, we will cry out to Jesus when we have reaped the fruit of our actions. Why? Did He not twinge our conscience through the Holy Spirit? Were we not informed of the risks?

Take Solomon's advice to steer clear of evil and the results will not follow!

 

The Cart Before The Horse

The horse is prepared against the day of battle: but safety is of the LORD.
Proverbs 21:31

My father often accused me of "getting the cart before the horse" by making big plans to be rich and famous at an early age. He would gently point out the flaws in my childish plans and explain why they would not work.

Solomon points out the same above. Why would you depend on the horse for protection during battle when the only one that can provide safety is the Lord? Literally, putting the horse before safe battle plans! Don't we do the same with our Christianity? We often make big plans on how we can show God's love to others when he will provide the opportunity with or without our input!

So instead of making big plans, why not submit to His will? That way, we don't have to develop elaborate plans to prove our Christianity. But simply ask, "Lord, what would you have me to do?"

 

Procrastination Prevention

The sluggard will not plow by reason of the cold; therefore shall he beg in harvest, and have nothing.
Proverbs 20:4

I must confess that I don't always bounce out of bed anxious to head to another day of work. There are those days that the alarm clock sounds too early and I would prefer to just pull the covers over my head and stay home. Have you had days like that? There are a myriad of reasons why we don't desire to dash out the door to work - an overbearing boss, looming deadlines, difficult customers or more exciting things to do at home. Regardless, we know that if we don't work, we can't provide for our family. As a result, without working we would have nothing as stated above.

Is it the same in your Christian life? Do you dread serving at church or serving others? Do you feel like the effort is just not worth it? As if, your efforts are not recognized or appreciated. The nagging question creeps in your head: "Why bother?"

What if Jesus felt the same way about us when faced with the choice of crucifixion for our sins. Did we notice? Did we appreciate His efforts? Was there great rejoicing for his actions on that memorable day? More importantly, was He willing to sacrifice himself for a lost and uncaring world?

If our Savior is willing to serve on the day he knew death was coming, how can we possibly refuse to serve Him by showing His love to others? Our reasons for not going to work pale in comparison to the decision he made that morning when he woke up. So prevent procrastination from occurring by thanking Him for setting the ultimate example by giving the ultimate sacrifice.

 

Inverted Standards

Better is the poor that walketh in his integrity, than he that is perverse in his lips, and is a fool.     Proverbs 19:1

Too often we measure our success by worldly standards vice Godly standards. The world measures a man's importance by his wealth. God measures our worth by our integrity. The press annually updates the list of the richest people in the world. God continuously updates the Book of Life with those who walk in integrity.

Which standard are you using for judging others? Godly or worldly standards? More importantly, which standard is your goal? Are you seeking short term recognition or long term rewards? We need to recognize the value of following God's standard regardless of our position in life.

 

Fly-Paper Friends

A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.           Proverbs 18:24

When I grew up on the farm, we used to hang fly papers to catch the millions of flys that harassed us during the summer. They came in small round canisters that you hung up by a tack that was included and you pulled them down to expose the sticky paper. If you ever messed up, you ended up with the fly paper wrapped all around your hand and was hard to get off!

Solomon describes a friend as sticking closer than a brother - what a concept. Your brother knows all about you and your idiosyncrasies but still buys you a Christmas present each year. Your friend is not constrained by family relationships but still chooses to buy you a gift! Truly an indication of their acceptance of you, good and bad habits considered.

But Solomon highlights the requirements for having such friends - being friendly yourself. No one chooses to befriend someone that is unfriendly or unapproachable. We must open up to others in order for them to accept us as we are. Honesty and sincerity are keys to a lasting friendship.

Do you have friends that stick by you better than fly paper? If so, let them know how much you appreciate their friendship! They don't have to stick around but they choose to do so on their own accord. Their kindness should not go unrecognized. Likewise, give yourself a pat on the back for being approachable as well! You deserve it!

 

Tried By Fire

 The fining pot is for silver, and the furnace for gold: but the LORD trieth the hearts.                Proverbs 17:3

While we may treasure silver and gold, the Lord treasures our heart. He knows what is most valuable in our life and works on it rather than the items that we may treasure. Much like the silver or gold must be melted before the artist can render a beautiful creation, so must our Master melt our heart to create his master piece.

Do you feel as if your heart is being melted and poured out? Is it being beaten by a hammer? Recognize that before we can become a dazzling treasure to our Lord, we must be tried by fire and refined by His hands into what he desires vice what we desire. Commit your heart to Him today. While the transition may be painful, the results will astound you!

 

High-Flying Buzzards

Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.     Proverbs 16:18

How often have we thought we were doing great only to fall flat on our face? Just when I think I have it all under control, everything falls apart! Such is the description given above by Solomon. When we start trusting in ourselves instead of God, we sink out of control. Kind of like Peter walking on the water (Matthew 14:24-33). And Jesus's answer to Peter? "O thou of little faith". Isn't it the same with us? We start doing swell on what we think is our own, only to realize we are nothing without God.

It reminds me of the image of eagle's soaring - they are graceful and full of strength. Unfortunately, we are often the buzzards my father described to me one day - "They are soaring high and think they are eagles. But eventually, they will swoop back down to reality and eat the rotten flesh vice the fresh food of eagles." There is only one way to transform us from the filthy buzzards to the graceful eagle - salvation. When we become new through Jesus Christ, we put away our old habits and "all things are new" (2 Corinthians 5:17).

Tired of reverting back to failures and the filthiness of sin? Put your trust in the only one who can truly change us from the inside out!

 

A No-Calorie Feast

All the days of the afflicted are evil: but he that is of a merry heart hath a continual feast.      Proverbs 15:15

When I think of Thanksgiving Day, a mental image of a huge feast appears! It is the preview of all the great food to follow through New Years. Unfortunately, my wife is an excellent cook and I never leave the Thanksgiving table without over-eating. There are just too many choices that are scrumptious! While I love the food, the calories are my worst enemy in battling the bulge.

However, the feast that Solomon describes above is without guilt or remorse over calories. When we are close to God, we can't help but have a merry or peaceful heart. While the world may be raging about us, He gives up peace in the middle of the storm. You have seen those that retain their composure no matter how devastating the events surrounding them. Such strength can only come from God. He will allow us to feast on His mercy and strength while others struggle to cope.

Do you hunger to feast from the table set for a merry heart? If so, seek Him and He will give you a bountiful feast for your heart without the calories!

But I have trusted in thy mercy; my heart shall rejoice in thy salvation.

I will sing unto the LORD, because he hath dealt bountifully with me.

Psalms 13:5-6

 

Love Lost

A righteous man hateth lying: but a wicked man is loathsome, and cometh to shame.     
Proverbs 13:5

As a kid, I hated many vegetables. Some were so disgusting that I got physically sick just by them being placed on my dinner plate. While I have grown to enjoy eating most vegetables, I can still remember the physical repulsion associated with just the thought of asparagus being place on my plate! While I had not taken a bite, my body would physically react.

We should be the same about lying - physically repulsed by the use of lies in our daily life. Unfortunately, our behavior mimics that of our eating habits. Little by little, we alter our eating habits until we learn to enjoy vegetables. Likewise, our use of lies has less and less impact upon our conscience. And then one day, we are no longer bothered about lying to others.

Solomon encourages us to hate lying. Not dislike, not favor nor ignore but aggressively focus our energy in physically preventing us from lying. Have you lost your love of "white lies" or harmless lies? Follow Solomon's lead and lose your love for the nasty habit.

 

Rooted In Righteousness

A man shall not be established by wickedness: but the root of the righteous shall not be moved.     Proverbs 12:3

David starts off Psalms describing the righteous as a tree planted by the water (Psalms 1:3) and Solomon continues the description in the verse above. What is the significance of being rooted? Anyone that has witnessed a windstorm knows that trees not firmly rooted rarely survive the gusts of wind. It is the same in life, we are continuously buffeted by temptations and hardships. If we are not firmly rooted, we will suffer the same fate.

Are you rooted in His Word? Are you unsure of your convictions or not sure where to turn? Dig in the God's Word and he will strengthen your roots to withstand the gusts in life.

 

The Substitute Recipient

 The righteous is delivered out of trouble, and the wicked cometh in his stead.    Proverbs 11:8

Solomon and his father, David, often talks of deliverance from evil and provides numerous descriptions throughout Psalms and Proverbs. But this is the only place where I have found a Substitute Recipient! I definitely want to be on the right side of such a switch!

While it would be nice to think that trouble will never beset us, sadly we know that is not the case. We all know that trouble that Job endured but look closely at the original description of this man (Job 1:1): perfect, upright, feared God and eschewed evil. While I strive to follow God's teachings, I don't think those adjectives aptly describe my performance as a Christian - especially the first one! Should I then complain of my predicament in life?

David pleads for deliverance numerous times throughout Psalms. Another man after God's own heart, David finds himself in situations that causes him to plead for God to deliver him. Of interest, never once does David justify the basis for deliverance upon his human abilities. Rather, he justifies his requests based upon trusting God, following God's word and crying out to Him that hears his prayer. And the Lord will deliver us when we trust, follow and call upon His name.

Do you feel overwhelmed in fighting the challenges of the world? Does there seem to be no end and no way out? Then follow Job and David's example of trusting God, following His will and crying out to the Lord. David promises us in Psalms 34:19 - Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the LORD delivereth him out of them all.  Trust in His promise to provide a substitute recipient while he blesses you!

 

The Perfect Stain Blocker

Hatred stirreth up strifes: but love covereth all sins.    Proverbs 10:12

I am often amazed at what women can do with cosmetics. With deft application of bases, blushes, liners and enhancers, women can quickly hide pimples, wrinkles, blotches and a myriad of other facial flaws. When they have completed their application, they appear flawless and radiant! But in the evening, when the face is cleansed of all coverings, the blemishes remain. They may be hidden for a short period of time - but they return.

So are our sins. While we may be able to hide them for a short period of time, they eventually become visible to others and are always visible to God. But His love for us covers all sins. Not one or two major sins, but ALL sins are forgiven when we confess them to Christ.

What a feeling of relief! When we are cleansed by his love, nothing can compare. David sums it up well in Psalms 32:1 - Blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered. Have you been trying to hide your sin by patching over them or taking care of them on your own? Come to our Savior and he will cleanse all stains.

 

Forsaken Winners

Forsake the foolish, and live; and go in the way of understanding.      Proverbs 9:6

Solomon highlights that we must forsake foolishness in order to gain understanding. We all recognize that, in many cases, we must sacrifice something in order to gain items of higher value: athletes sacrifice excessive effort exercising to achieve physical prowess, scientists sacrifice hours of research to develop their inventions, etc.  Nothing we value is easily obtained without sacrifice.

Likewise, Jesus challenges his followers to forsake earthly treasures for his service. And he promises "And every one that hath forsaken houses, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my name's sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall inherit everlasting life." (Matthew 19:29)

What have you given up for Christ? As you forsake your goals to follow Him, he will bless you beyond measure!

 

Immeasurable Treasure

For wisdom is better than rubies; and all the things that may be desired are not to be compared to it.                Proverbs 8:11

We often are required to complete a financial statement that determines our net worth. But there are some things beyond measure. Solomon declares that wisdom is more valuable than "all things that may be desired". Quite a bold statement from someone who was quite wealthy. When you read of the riches he amassed for the temple, it puts into perspective the value he placed upon wisdom.

How much have you invested in seeking wisdom? Time, effort, prayer and concentration are all sacrifices  required to achieve wisdom. Have you invested wisely? It is never too late to start! Jesus encourages us in Matthew 6:33 - But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. If we prioritize our efforts, the rewards will be immeasurable!

While we may not be as wealthy as Solomon, we can be as richly blessed by simply investing our time and effort seeking after the proper goals that last beyond a lifetime!

 

Poetic Justification

He hath taken a bag of money with him, and will come home at the day appointed.   Proverbs 7:20

Solomon spends the majority of this chapter discussing the fall of a foolish young man to an evil woman. In the verse above, she justifies why it is acceptable for him to spend the night with a married woman. While it appears to be obvious that such a justification is foolish, I am reminded of the famous lines of Robert Burns famous poem To a Mouse - "The best laid schemes of mice and men". Doesn't our plans often go astray?

We build great plans based upon our assumptions and justifications only to have them collapse like a house of cards. Is it simply due to random acts of nature? Or are we missing something during the planning process? Often when we plan, our conscious will twinge at some of our actions or intents. But we quickly justify them based upon the fact that "everyone else is doing it". Then we wonder why we fail.

Jesus explains the problem with our plans in Luke 6:47-49. When we come to Christ, hear his words and do them, we will succeed. If we choose not to follow his guidance, our plans are swept away. Is it not poetic justice that when we plan as men (or mice) we fail, but when we follow God's plan, we succeed? God has a plan for each of us from the cradle to the grave. If we will but listen, we will succeed!

 

Bug Splatter

Go to the ant, thou sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise:         Proverbs 6:6

No one hates bugs in the house more than my wife. With the arrival of a single bug, the warning is sounded and all-out-war commences! Physical, chemical and sound wave weaponry is deployed with a vengeance rarely seen in her normally calm demeanor. I used to think she was frightened by the critters but I have slowly realized it is not fear but a protection of her domain. They may rule the outdoors but nothing comes into the home without her permission!

But even with such theatrics in our home, we need to closely listen to Solomon's advice in gaining wisdom from observing the ant. While we can often quote the fact that they gather food in the time of harvest, we tend to skip over the verse in between the two: "Which having no guide, overseer, or ruler," (Proverbs 6:7). Now that I think about it, I have never observed coronations, elections or debates among the ants before they were mercilessly splattered. We never hear of political boundaries between ants or democratic resolutions to resolve ant brutality. Why? For they all strive to ensure the benefit of the whole colony. They are not concerned with their position within the colony - they simply go about performing their role without the expectation for promotion or recognition.

Wouldn't it be great if we worked together in the same manner at church? We are working toward a common goal. Right? And what benefit is recognition on earth? Shouldn't the goal be recognition by our Master? Could we function without a guide, overseer or ruler? Nope, I am afraid the old "P" word would get in our way. People take pride in their sacrifices (and are happy to boast about them). People take pride in their honors and recognition. People take pride in their positions held within the church. Yes, pride keeps the church from functioning smoothly without a guide.

Perhaps we should squash our pride instead of the bugs? Then we could also be used as an example of selfless sacrifice to a common goal of glorifying our Savior!

 

Escape From Despair

Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel:       Proverbs 5:9

Solomon paints a dismal picture of the price of a sinful life. At some point, reality strikes and exposes our choices for what they truly are. With a sickening sense of hopelessness, we realize that we have squandered our honor and efforts for the benefit of others who could care less for our well-being. In utter despair, we feel that no one cares and we deserve the punishment and degradation bestowed upon our miserable life.

But a faint glimmer of hope beckons with the realization that Jesus is waiting for us to call upon him. David describes it best in Psalms 71:4-5 - Deliver me, O my God, out of the hand of the wicked, out of the hand of the unrighteous and cruel man. For thou art my hope, O Lord GOD: thou art my trust from my youth.  He is able to deliver us from any despair we encounter, if we trust in him.

Have you encountered such a time of despair? I encourage you to read Psalms 34. As God's children, He will hear and answer our pleas. I will leave the closing verses for your encouragement:

The righteous cry, and the LORD heareth, and delivereth them out of all their troubles. The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous: but the LORD delivereth him out of them all. He keepeth all his bones: not one of them is broken. Evil shall slay the wicked: and they that hate the righteous shall be desolate. The LORD redeemeth the soul of his servants: and none of them that trust in him shall be desolate. (Psalms 34:17-22)

 

Dangerous Detour

Enter not into the path of the wicked, and go not in the way of evil men. Avoid it, pass not by it, turn from it, and pass away.      Proverbs 4:14-15

Solomon is very explicit in his warning to steer clear of evil men and their wicked ways! Not one or two but four descriptions are used to describe how to stay away from evil. Essentially, he is saying don't even come close to it! But why? If you are Godly person, can't you withstand the temptation?

I think Jesus aptly described our situation in Matthew 26:41 - Watch and pray, that ye enter not into temptation: the spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak. And he recognized our weakness to temptation by including it in the Lord's Prayer (Matthew 6:13). Truly Jesus recognized our weakness to resist temptation and encouraged us to seek protection. Hence, Solomon's stern warning not to allow ourselves to get into the position of temptation.

And James describes the results of such evil temptations in James 1:14-15 - But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed. Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death. 

An old saying states, "An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure." And Solomon was trying to prevent our fall into sin. So heed his warning and take the detour around the disaster of temptation!

 

Unappreciated Kindness

Withhold not good from them to whom it is due, when it is in the power of thine hand to do it.      Proverbs 3:27

We are happy when we can do good for those we love. There is no greater sense of satisfaction than when we bask in the appreciation from someone that we have just done a good deed. Their sincere appreciation causes our chest to swell with pride and our steps a little lighter. But what about those who are not appreciative?

It is difficult to share kindness or good deeds with those who are not appreciative - almost as if it is expected of you. No appreciation is shown and they continue in their same old lifestyle without a moment's hesitation to appreciate your deeds. When the next opportunity arises, if is even more difficult for you to share your efforts with them. For you know there will be no appreciation nor a positive response.

But God has set the example for us to follow. When the Israelites repeatedly turned away, he continued to show his love and mercy. Even when they wished to return to captivity, God did not forsake them. Hasn't he done the same for us? Can any of us claim to be without sin? Even after He gave His Son to die for us?

When we hesitate to share goodness with others, we need to compare the value of our gift against that of God. Does it come any where close to giving up you one and only son? I didn't think so. And it causes us to recognize the lack of love for others. We need to recognize where our blessings originate (not from us) and be happy to be used by our Savior to share goodness with others. Regardless of the appreciation.

 

The Right(eous) Path

 That thou mayest walk in the way of good men, and keep the paths of the righteous.                      Proverbs 2:20

We have often heard that we are known by the company that we keep. Solomon alludes to the same above in reference to our walk through life. But the second part is a little more challenging - we know many good men who are not Christians. So how do we differentiate the paths of "good" versus "righteous" paths?

I will defer to the "man after God's own heart" to help us better understand for he refers to our path more in Psalms than any other book of the Bible! In Psalms 25:4-5, David states: "Shew me thy ways, O LORD; teach me thy paths. Lead me in thy truth, and teach me: for thou art the God of my salvation; on thee do I wait all the day." and in Psalms 16:11- Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore.

It is clear that the righteous path is shown to us by the Lord but I have never seen flashing neon signs highlighting the righteous path. Rather, it sometimes seems obscure and hidden by all of the distractions of the world. But David (again) gives us the guidance in Psalms 119:105 - Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. What a simple but challenging method to find the often elusive path - committing God's word to our heart! I often feel that God was smart enough to recognize our laziness in studying His word, so he made it a prerequisite to receiving his guidance and blessings!

Talking  about blessings, we are all familiar with the 23rd Psalms. David describes a life blessed by God. He also states: "He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake." (Psalms 23:3). Clearly David knew the value of choosing the righteous path - shouldn't we? If you feel that you have stumbled in life, go back to the road map (His Word) and let him light your way to the path of righteousness! You, too, will be able to claim the peace and comfort described in Psalms 23.

 

No Fear

But whoso hearkeneth unto me shall dwell safely, and shall be quiet from fear of evil.   Proverbs 1:33

Halloween is a time for horror movies but no one enjoys when life imitates art (if horror movies count as art). While the flicks give us a sudden burst of adrenaline, we are comforted to know that it is only a movie and will end within a couple of hours. Except for the nightmares!

Does life give you nightmares? Does the same horrible scene, real or imagined, continue to play over and over in your mind? Whether it is from a spouse, child, work or peers, when something horrible occurs, it seems impossible to block it from your memory. Years can pass and the memory will pop up from no where and frighten you, again.

But there is a solution to our fears - God. In Psalms 34:7, David assures us "The angel of the LORD encampeth round about them that fear him, and delivereth them." What a concept! Why should we fear when we have angelic protection? I am confident that nothing we face can overcome their abilities!

So why do we still have nightmares? Simply because we choose to handle the issue on our own instead of committing it to Christ. When we turn the issue over to Him, we have peace and confidence that He is capable of taking care of anything besieging us. I encourage you to talk with your Savior today and let his angelic forces protect you vice fighting your own battles. You will sleep soundly with no nightmares and no fear!

 

Marriage's Missing Link

 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
Proverbs 31:11

Proverbs 31 is known for describing the perfect wife. I believe this verse describes the perfect marriage. The first part of the verse describes that the husband's heart safely trusts in his wife. Trust is a mutual relationship between two people. Much like love, trust is a two-way street. In order for either love or trust to exist, there must be unimpeded flow between the two that is not hampered by doubt, envy or anger. The adjective of "safely" implies there has been no history to cause doubt about the validity of the trust. As a result, the wife can equally trust the husband.

Trust requires open and honest communication that is void of deception, secrets or hidden agendas. The two freely share their opinions and emotions without fear of retribution. Each understands and respects the other - both their features and their faults. And neither hampers their love and trust of the other.

The relationship between husband and wife is compared to that between Jesus and the church (Ephesians 5:25). What a better example of a perfect relationship. In order for us to be close to Christ and safely trust Him, we must have the relationship of open and honest communication.

Do you have such a relationship with your spouse? If so, give them an extra hug tonight and thank them for such a wonderful blessing. If not, take the first steps in building such a relationship by following the example of Jesus. I don't know of a better example of a perfect relationship!