We are happy when we can do good for those we love. There is no greater sense of satisfaction than when we bask in the appreciation from someone that we have just done a good deed. Their sincere appreciation causes our chest to swell with pride and our steps a little lighter. But what about those who are not appreciative?
It is difficult to share kindness or good deeds with those who are not appreciative - almost as if it is expected of you. No appreciation is shown and they continue in their same old lifestyle without a moment's hesitation to appreciate your deeds. When the next opportunity arises, if is even more difficult for you to share your efforts with them. For you know there will be no appreciation nor a positive response.
But God has set the example for us to follow. When the Israelites repeatedly turned away, he continued to show his love and mercy. Even when they wished to return to captivity, God did not forsake them. Hasn't he done the same for us? Can any of us claim to be without sin? Even after He gave His Son to die for us?
When we hesitate to share goodness with others, we need to compare the value of our gift against that of God. Does it come any where close to giving up you one and only son? I didn't think so. And it causes us to recognize the lack of love for others. We need to recognize where our blessings originate (not from us) and be happy to be used by our Savior to share goodness with others. Regardless of the appreciation.