When I grew up on the farm, we used to hang fly papers to catch the millions of flys that harassed us during the summer. They came in small round canisters that you hung up by a tack that was included and you pulled them down to expose the sticky paper. If you ever messed up, you ended up with the fly paper wrapped all around your hand and was hard to get off!
Solomon describes a friend as sticking closer than a brother - what a concept. Your brother knows all about you and your idiosyncrasies but still buys you a Christmas present each year. Your friend is not constrained by family relationships but still chooses to buy you a gift! Truly an indication of their acceptance of you, good and bad habits considered.
But Solomon highlights the requirements for having such friends - being friendly yourself. No one chooses to befriend someone that is unfriendly or unapproachable. We must open up to others in order for them to accept us as we are. Honesty and sincerity are keys to a lasting friendship.
Do you have friends that stick by you better than fly paper? If so, let them know how much you appreciate their friendship! They don't have to stick around but they choose to do so on their own accord. Their kindness should not go unrecognized. Likewise, give yourself a pat on the back for being approachable as well! You deserve it!
