Proverbs 12:4
Too often, we judge people by what we see in their outward behavior. Unfortunately, we do not have the ability to judge a person's heart - only God can. Let me give you an example: there was a young lady who was engaged. Unfortunately, she became pregnant before the wedding. And rumors were flying that the child was not from the potential bridegroom! What a horrible situation - a young man had offered his heart and his future to a young woman who was willing to trample his love by having a child by another! Many shook their heads and agreed that it was only fitting that the young man cancel the wedding and move on to a more faithful wife. Wouldn't you agree?
But there are a couple of twists to the story. The bridegroom did not break off the engagement and the wife birthed our Savior! Quite a different situation? No, not really. We are too quick to judge others by public perception without focusing on the important part - their salvation. For you see, Mary was a virtuous woman that did bring more glory to her husband than could ever be imagined! Yet, they did not follow public perception but God's guidance.
So today, when you are tempted to judge others, pray for them instead!
