Saturday, February 15, 2014

Valentine's Aftermath

 A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken.
Proverbs 15:13

By the day after Valentine's Day, it is obvious who did and did not get the affection and gifts they desired. Those fortunate to be showered with gifts and affection have an extra spring in their step and smiles are seen on their faces. By contrast, those neglected, rejected and ignored walk a little slower and can't seem to make themselves smile. Quite a difference in emotion between the two ends of the spectrum: from bubbling happiness to deeper despair.

But if you really analyze the difference, was is due to the few dollars spent on flowers, cards and candy? Not really, the difference is in the emotions accompanying the gifts. While some may have received hugely expensive gifts, they still may not have that spring in the step, if they don't feel loved. But others who received a simple hand-made card with true emotions expressed may be cheerful all day long. The differentiating factor is love. If we feel loved and respected, we can't help but let it show. Likewise, if we feel ignored and unappreciated, not matter how big the gift, the pain remains.

Let me point out who loves you most and gave the most precious gift - God. It is heralded in the best known verse - For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. And Jesus predicted this act of love in John 15:13 - Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.

Did you not receive the gift you desired on Valentine's Day? Rest assured that you are loved by the greatest lover of all man-kind - Jesus. So put a spring in your step and a smile on your face. For you have received the greatest gift of all.