Proverbs 14:29
Today is the day that we shower those we love with cards, gifts and chocolates. And while we normally receive appreciation for the gifts, it is short-lived. How many of our loved ones discuss or even remember the candy or flowers we gave them by July? Is it because our gifts are insignificant? Not what they wanted? Or were they expected to be given?
Solomon describes a gift that we can give those we love that is certain to be appreciated for not only months but years to come! How comforting and assuring for us to know that our loved one is slow to anger! Living in fear of our loved one snapping with hurtful words or losing their temper at the least little event diminishes the value of the relationship. When we are in a loving and supportive relationship, we look forward to being together. However, if we fear their response, we are not as excited to be in the vicinity of the person.
Why not give a gift of a lifetime? Be slow to anger. Your loved ones will recognize the value of such a gift and treasure it forever. The petals of the flower may fade, but a supportive relationship will put a smile on their face every day!
