Have you had a long-running argument with some one? It seems every time that you meet, a heated exchange of words are soon to follow (or maybe just a cold shoulder at each meeting)? At times we wonder, will it ever end. Either they will not see things our way or simply apologize for their actions. Either way, the animosity remains.
Solomon points out that without fuel, the fire goes out. Likewise with our disagreements. Once we cease to be upset by the individuals actions or opinions, the contentions cease. It doesn't have to end in agreement or forgiveness. Simply, we are no longer bothered by their actions. And how is the best way to interrupt such an argument?
Simply to love them as Christ loves us. He gives us the instruction manual in Mathew 5:38-48:
Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth: But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloak also. And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain. Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not thou away. Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust. For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same? And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so? Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.
While the instructions are simple, they are not easy to follow. Unless you have the love of Christ in your heart. Show His love for you by showing others His love.
