Filthy Rejection

There is a generation that are pure in their own eyes, and yet is not washed from their filthiness.     Proverbs 30:12

We often go through the rituals of approaching God without filling his presence. Afterwards, we wonder why he did not honor our approach to His throne. The words of Agur above may well be an indicator of our problem. David in his repentance for his affair with Bathsheba gives us a clearer understanding in Psalms 51:16-17: For thou desirest not sacrifice; else would I give it: thou delightest not in burnt offering. The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise. Prior to offering sacrifices, God desires a broken and contrite heart. One who recognizes his filthy condition and pleads for cleansing (Psalms 51:7). Once we have confessed our sins, God will forgive us and give us a pure heart. There is nothing we can do ourselves to cleanse our heart - it comes only by God.

Jesus promises us "Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God." (Matthew 5:8). So, the next time you want to see your Master, cleanse your heart and you will be in his presence!

 

Smiling Alone

Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.                Proverbs 29:18

Has life gotten in a rut for you? Each day seems like a miserable repeat of the day before. There is little joy or expectation when you awake. It reminds me of the movies - dark clouds, blustery wind, bitter cold and pelting rain attacks the hapless hero. A vivid image of how our lives can quickly become without a vision or dream.

I think back to the anticipation and excitement I had just prior to turning sixteen. I could hardly wait to get out of bed every day - each morning represented one less day until I got my driver's license! We have experienced the same feeling of hope and anticipation with relationships, marriage, careers and our children. Why? Because we had a vision of things to come! In our minds, we could see where these life-changing dreams would take us.

But over the years, the excitement dies, doubt replaces hope and anticipation becomes dread. We recognize that reality does not necessarily reflect our hopes and dreams. We soon look like all of the other people walking the streets with a blank, worried expression. I challenge you to count the people in a crowded airport (or on the street) that are walking alone and smiling. Why? The fire of hope has become a flickering candle as their vision or dream slowly dies within them.

As Christians, we should be one of the few in a crowded place smiling while being alone. Why? Because we have a vision with a promise - In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also. (John 14:2-3).

Are you looking forward to your mansion? Can you imagine the place the creator has prepared just for you? Can you describe the joy of being with your Savior? The anticipation and excitement should be adequate to put a beaming smile on our face even as we trudge through life's daily chores. Hopefully, I can count your smile in the next airport!

 

Foolish Trust

He that trusteth in his own heart is a fool: but whoso walketh wisely, he shall be delivered.     Proverbs 28:26

We often think it is cute when we see a toddler trying to do things for themselves. Such independence! But shortly afterwards, we observe the parents chasing after the little one trying to protect it from unforeseen dangers. I imagine our Father in Heaven is much like the parents of the toddler - rushing around to protect us from ourselves and preventing us from encountering unseen dangers.

How often we incorrectly assume that we can handle a situation all by our self? You know the really simple ones that could never go wrong? I mean, we don't have to depend on God for everything - right? Wrong. If we are not allowing God to direct us in every way, we are asking for trouble. David sums it up well in Psalms 20:7-8: Some trust in chariots, and some in horses: but we will remember the name of the LORD our God. They are brought down and fallen: but we are risen, and stand upright.

Where do you put your trust? In your own strength or the One that never fails?

 

Less Of me, More Of Others

Let another man praise thee, and not thine own mouth; a stranger, and not thine own lips.       Proverbs 27:2

No one enjoys being around the one that has done it all or seen it all. They are the authority on every subject! Their behavior ruins any conversation you attempt by their continuous interruptions based upon their personal experience. They are usually not someone high on your priority list to visit!

While it is easy to disparage others with this disease, it is highly contagious. If we are not careful, we can all succumb to its bitterness. I have caught myself attempting to listen to another pour out his heart only to catch myself interjecting my own experiences during their attempt to share their burdens. What was I missing? God's love. I was too stuck on myself to listen to their issue. I was too busy explaining my own experience to simply listen and show God's love.

Paul describes it best in 1 Cor 13:1 - Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal. If we do not show love for others and are simply too hung upon our own experience, we are useless.

Let's focus on showing our love for others by simply listening rather than trying to impress. Most are not looking for a hero, they are simply looking for some one who cares. Jesus cares for us and we should do the same for others.

 

Contention Ceased

Where no wood is, there the fire goeth out: so where there is no talebearer, the strife ceaseth.  Proverbs 26:20

Have you had a long-running argument with some one? It seems every time that you meet, a heated exchange of words are soon to follow (or maybe just a cold shoulder at each meeting)? At times we wonder, will it ever end. Either they will not see things our way or simply apologize for their actions. Either way, the animosity remains.

Solomon points out that without fuel, the fire goes out. Likewise with our disagreements. Once we cease to be upset by the individuals actions or opinions, the contentions cease. It doesn't have to end in agreement or forgiveness. Simply, we are no longer bothered by their actions. And how is the best way to interrupt such an argument?

Simply to love them as Christ loves us. He gives us the instruction manual in Mathew 5:38-48:

 Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth: But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him have thy cloak also. And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain. Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not thou away. Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust. For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same? And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so? Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.

While the instructions are simple, they are not easy to follow. Unless you have the love of Christ in your heart. Show His love for you by showing others His love.

 

Concealed Purposes

It is the glory of God to conceal a thing: but the honour of kings is to search out a matter.       Proverbs 25:2

As we become more educated, we feel that we must be able to explain everything. But yet, there are so many things we can never explain. It frustrates us when we are unable to justify why or how things occur. Ever wonder why you are in the situation you are in? Can you fully explain it?

Paul captures it best in Romans 11:33 - "O the depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! how unsearchable are his judgments, and his ways past finding out!" And Isaiah 55:8 tells us "For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the LORD." So it appears that it is hopeless for us to ever understand what God has in store for us or why we are in a situation that boggles our mind.

But Jesus provides us comfort in our confusion. He tells us in Matthew 7:7-8 - Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. What a comfort! Even when our education leaves us confused, God will provide us answers when we seek him.

 

Preparing For War

For by wise counsel thou shalt make thy war: and in multitude of counsellors there is safety.   Proverbs 24:6

Solomon gives great advice for developing war plans. If we were Admirals and Generals in the military, we could benefit from this advice. But does it really apply to our daily lives? You bet! Paul clearly defines our daily battles in Ephesians 6:11-18. Alas, we are at war daily with the temptations of the world.

So let's look at the verse in how it applies to us in our daily battle. Who has the ability to provide "wise counsel"? While we may be quick to think of strong Christian mentors that help guide us in our Christian journey, let's see what Jesus says in John 14:26 - "But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you." Now that is some one upon who we can trust for wise counsel!! By listening to the Holy Spirit within us, we are led in a manner to win our daily battles.

Likewise, Jesus promises us safety and peace in the following verse of John 14:27 - "Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid." Solomon refers to the multitude of counselors. And I can't think of a better multitude than the Holy Trinity. With the Holy Ghost within us and the Father and Son communing with us, we are assured the peace of God (Philippians 4:7)

So let us prepare ourselves each morning for our daily battle with the enemy by seeking the counsel of the Holy Ghost and seek the peace that only God can provide.

 

The Best Lawyer

Remove not the old landmark; and enter not into the fields of the fatherless: For their redeemer is mighty; he shall plead their cause with thee.   Proverbs 23:10-11

People are cheated on a daily basis. Many are not be able to defend themselves physically, mentally or financially. And those who benefit scoff at the concept of equality in dealing with others. "Let the buyer beware" they laughingly say. However, I would counter that "cheaters beware of the Avenger".

Jesus tells us to turn the other check and forgive multiple times. The verse above provides comfort in knowing that God protects us. While we may be taken advantage of in Christian dealings with others, we know that the Mighty One will plead our cause. What a comfort! But I shudder to be on the wrong end of that situation! It causes me to think twice in my dealings with others - am I treating others as Jesus would? If not, will he plead their case with me?

Let's look at our relationship with others today. Do we have the best defense or the worst prosecution lawyer facing us in the relationship? I am defenseless in defending my abuse of others when questioned by Christ. But likewise, my defenseless actions are defended by the best lawyer in the universe!

 

A Painful Promise

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.  Proverbs 22:6

I can't imagine the number of parents that have clung to the promise in the verse above. While we strive to teach our children in the way of the Lord, it is hard to allow them to "grow up" and make their own decisions. Whether it be their marriage partner, career or spending habits, we have the tendency to impart the wisdom from our own experience. While the "School of Hard Knocks" may be the best teacher, we definitely don't want our children to make the same mistakes we have made during the course of life. We only want the best for them, including a close relationship with God.

Much like all other aspects of parenting, the best teaching is accomplished through leading by example. Do we share with our children how we spend time each day studying God's word or do we demonstrate a "Sunday Only" approach to Christianity? They will see on a daily basis just how committed we are to living a Christian life.

We must face the fact that as our children grow, they must be allowed to make their own decisions. Much like Christ allows us to make a decision to serve him. While He is able to force us to follow his will, it is by our own choice that we choose to obey. And the same privilege should be afforded to our children. While we don't like it, they must make the decision on their own.

As a Follower of Jesus, let's follow His example: teaching the way to salvation, the keys to a christian life and allowing each to make their own decision. It hurts to allow such freedom but the joy when they reach the decision to follow Christ is well worth the pain!

 

Foolish Justification

There is no wisdom nor understanding nor counsel against the LORD.  Proverbs 21:30

It is sometimes amusing to listen to people try to deny God. Whether it is to deny His existence or justify why they have not accepted him as Lord of their life, the excuses are almost laughable. No matter how hard they try, the reasoning just does not stack up for a Believer. And Solomon captures it all above - there simply is no basis against God.

So why do people continue to struggle with such a simple concept? They are simply trying too hard! Salvation is not built upon scientific proof or historical accuracy but upon child-like trust. Jesus tells us in Mark 10:15- Verily I say unto you, Whosoever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a little child, he shall not enter therein. A child does not try to use logic to make a decision - simply trust. So must we approach God for salvation. The proof comes upon believing in Him. While you may have difficulty verbalizing your emotions and trust - you will know deep down in your heart and soul that he exists.

While we may struggle trying to lead others to Christ. When they have many rebuttals based upon science, public opinion and history - we need to pause from the debate. We are not here to debate or prove but to present a living example of God's love. If we follow His will, He will take care of the rest.

 

We Are Never Alone

Man's goings are of the LORD; how can a man then understand his own way?  Proverbs 20:24

Have you ever felt abandoned? Truly alone? I am talking about the bottom of the pit of despair. No one understands and no one cares. You cry out to God but you feel like your prayers don't get pass the ceiling of the room in which you are trapped. You feel there is no solution for your situation.

Solomon points out the fact that we can not understand our own actions. How can we then understand why we feel abandoned? Let me share some verses that helped me get through such situations. Paul gives us excellent advice in Hebrews 13:5 - Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee. It is comforting to know that He will never forsake us - but to be content? Surely, Paul did not anticipate such deplorable conditions as we suffer!

Let's look to our Master for guidance. When the disciples where in the boat in the storm, they feared for their life. It wasn't perceived danger - it was real. Each crashing wave reminded them that they were nearing the end of their life! But yet they had Jesus - literally and physically. And what did he say to his loved ones? "And he saith unto them, Why are ye fearful, O ye of little faith? Then he arose, and rebuked the winds and the sea; and there was a great calm." (Matthew 8:26) Hmm.. faith. What a wonderful concept! Paul tells us the power of faith in Hebrews 11. And David tells us in Psalms 118:6 - The LORD is on my side; I will not fear: what can man do unto me?

Do you still fear? Do you still feel alone? Take David's advice: In my distress I called upon the LORD, and cried unto my God: he heard my voice out of his temple, and my cry came before him, even into his ears. (Psalms 18:6). Rest assured, he hears our pleas and he will answer.

 

True Friendship

Wealth maketh many friends; but the poor is separated from his neighbour.   Proverbs 19:4

Who says you can't buy friends? Solomon points out that wealth draws friends like moths to a candle. But are they truly friends? While they may appear to be friendly, what is their motivation? Your wealth or well-being? Such thoughts plant a seed of doubt about people's true intentions.

My wife and I have had our share of financial challenges. But looking in hindsight, we never felt closer to each other than when we teamed together to fight our way out of such challenges. And our friends then? The best we ever had!

It makes me stop and challenge my own personal motivation for friendship with others. Is it for my own personal benefit? Is it the "connections" they have in lofty positions? Or is it simply a matter of showing God's love to others? When Jesus came to the earth, he didn't pursue the rulers of the country or the church. Rather, he focused upon the dregs of society: the poor, the sick, low-income workers and tax collectors. What was his motivation? For His benefit or for their benefit? As Christians, we should be friendly to others, regardless of their station in life. Didn't He do the same to us?

 

Tearing Down Walls

A brother offended is harder to be won than a strong city: and their contentions are like the bars of a castle.    Proverbs 18:19

When we let our emotions run unchecked, stand by for disaster! We say and do things that result in us doing irreparable harm to those we love. And no matter how hard we try, we can not erase our actions and words.

Solomon compares it to a strong city and bars on a castle - quite an obstacle to overcome! While we can soften the impact by honest and sincere apologies, the damage is done. We can continue to show our regret, but the memory remains. The best defense is a strong offense - against ever performing such an act in the first place. We need to keep our emotions in check from the onset.

And the best resource for holding our emotions in check? A close walk with God. He will lead and guide us in what we should say and do. But the first part is the hard part - a close walk with God. This only comes by keeping close through prayer and meditation on his word so that we can hear him when he speaks to us.

A close walk with our Father will ensure the bars and walls are never built in the first place. Then our life is not so difficult tearing down the walls we have built by our actions.

 

Blessed Silence

He that hath knowledge spareth his words: and a man of understanding is of an excellent spirit.     Proverbs 17:27

I often suffer from the disease of "diarrhea of the mouth" - continuous babbling when I should be quiet. And nothing good ever comes from it. Solomon tells us above that it is a direct reflection on lack of knowledge. And he is right, again. Likewise, James gives us excellent advise in James 1:19 - Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.

When I stop talking and listen, I learn much, much more. If it is someone that I have just met, I gain a deeper understanding of the individual. If it is a loved one, I will actually understand their feelings and emotions. When I don't keep my mouth shut, I often go off on a half-cocked decision based upon minimal knowledge of the situation. And you can guess the results!

Isn't the same true with our relationship with Christ? I catch myself babbling about my needs or wants, what I think He needs to do for others and what I need to improve in my life. If I would just stop talking and listen, I would hear what He wants me to do. Why don't we pause in our babbling today and listen closely to God's words - the results will astound us! Only when we are listening, can we truly say "speak, for thy servant heareth" (1 Sam 3:10).

 

Enemy Suppression

When a man's ways please the LORD, he maketh even his enemies to be at peace with him.          Proverbs 16:7

In the military, much study and analysis is performed on how to suppress your enemy and minimize his impact upon your intended actions. Much is the same in our personal life. We spend numerous hours worrying about our enemies and how to minimize their harm. We devise counter maneuvers and build defenses to overcome the hostile actions of those we distrust.

Solomon points out that we are approaching the situation backwards. Instead of worrying about the enemy, we need to worry about pleasing God. If our relationship is right with God, he will take care of the rest.

How many times have you prepared for your enemy only to find out they did not react in the manner you anticipated? Just think how much more beneficial that time would have been spent pleasing God? Jesus recognized that we worry unnecessarily about all manner of issues, including enemies. But in Matthew 6:33 he states -"But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you." Did he encourage us to worry about our enemies (or food or clothes)? No he encourages us to seek Him.

Seek and trust Him today. He will take care of the rest.

 

Time With A Friend

The sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination to the LORD: but the prayer of the upright is his delight.     Proverbs 15:8

We often judge our devotion to Christ by how much we give financially. However, Solomon points out quite a contrast above. The Lord prefers our time and focus than a half-hearted financial donation. He doesn't want our surplus cash, he wants our life.

I often compare this to a marriage. If a husband never spends quality time with his wife but merely shows up with gifts, talks with her once a week - is it really a marriage? Is it even a relationship? Ask your wife - she knows the answer! And yet, many feel that a stroke of a check and few hours on Sunday checks the block with our Lord. Doesn't he deserve more?

We are quick to call out when we are in need or desperately want something. But we are also quick to forget Him when things are going well. And this is how we treat someone who gave His son's life so that we may have eternal life?

God doesn't want our surplus wealth (that he bestowed upon us initially). He doesn't want token effort at the church. He desires a relationship. And a relationship is built upon sharing. And the best way to share with our Lord? Through frequent and effective prayer and studying of His word.

Won't you be a friend to our Lord today and give him what he desires most? Time spent together in prayer. He will be delighted!

 

Secrets Of The Heart

The heart knoweth his own bitterness; and a stranger doth not intermeddle with his joy.            Proverbs 14:10

Not even our closest friend or loved one knows what is in our heart. We may think we know how someone feels based on their behavior and response. But we don't truly know and some are great actors! And I admit that I am also guilty of putting a smile on my face and kindness in my voice even when my heart is heavy.

Why do we try to hide our feelings? Because we are macho? Because we don't believe others are genuine in their concern? That they just won't understand? Because we are embarrassed to admit our faults? These and many more reasons cause us to pause in revealing how we truly feel. And it only causes us to walk around with pent up feelings and emotions that are just seething to be released.

There is One that knows our heart and he cares for us. David experienced the challenges of life more dramatically than I and spoke these words in Psalms 55:22 - Cast thy burden upon the LORD, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved. And he promised us in Psalms 147:3 - He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds. What encouraging words for us that are suffering from a heavy heart.

When you feel that no one understands or cares, He cares for you. When we don't understand why things are happening - He understands and cares for us. When we are so broken inside, that words can't describe our pain - He cares for us. Remember the Beatitudes? (Matthew 5:3-12) Jesus described our hearts well: those poor in spirit, the meek, those that mourn, and those persecuted. All of these sound like some one with a heavy heart. And what did Jesus promise? Restoration of the heart. If he made our hearts, he can surely fix them.

I will leave you today with words from the expert: David. I encourage you to read Psalms 25. David clearly relates to all of us suffering from a heavy heart. Let us put our trust in the one that can heal our broken heart!

 

Complaining Gets Nothing

The soul of the sluggard desireth, and hath nothing: but the soul of the diligent shall be made fat. Proverbs 13:4

Solomon provides a sharp contrast between the sluggard and the diligent. Do we not see the same disparity among people today? There are many who continually complain about their station in life yet they do nothing to help themselves. Yet, there are others who diligently work two, and sometimes three, jobs just to make ends meet without a peep. While the diligent may not be rich, they are fed and clothed.

Shouldn't we be the same in our Christian life? Continual complaints of not being blessed does not improve our spiritual well being. But the ones who struggle through life's challenges are blessed by God. They continue to seek ways to serve the Lord, regardless of their financial abilities and natural talents. We should do the same!

Join me in renewing my commitment to quit complaining and to start looking for ways that God wants me to serve Him today.

 

The Power Of A Kind Word

Heaviness in the heart of man maketh it stoop: but a good word maketh it glad.     Proverbs 12:25

Everyone appreciates positive recognition. Likewise, people longed to be appreciated for their efforts. So why is it so difficult to speak words of appreciation to someone? In reality, it is not. Except, we feel too busy to take the time to speak.

Many people are living in doubt if there efforts are in vain. While they are striving to do well, it is never confirmed. A simple "thank you" or "great job" would erase the doubt and fill the heart with confidence. And it doesn't take much effort to achieve. But it does take awareness of our surroundings - we are too often consumed in our own little world to recognize others around us.

I challenge you to break free from your own distractions and recognize those around you today. Hopefully, you will recognize those who need to see the love of Christ through a simple word of encouragement.

 

Double Judgment

Behold, the righteous shall be recompensed in the earth; much more the wicked and the sinner. Proverbs 11:31

We have all seen situations happen to people and hear some one state that is was pay back for something the individual had done. Well, here is the verse to back it up! Solomon clealy states that we will be recompensed for our actions on earth. Other translations (NIV, NKJ) are a little clearer on the fact that it does occur on earth.

And he warns that it is more so for the wicked and the sinner. And Paul warns in Hebrews 9:27, "And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment". We know then that as sinners we are punished on earth and then judged to eternal punishment on Judgement Day. It drives home the impact of pain and suffering to be endured by loved ones that have not accepted Christ. With such an ominous future, we should strive with a renewed vigor to lead our loved ones to Christ!

As Christians, we may suffer on earth through trials and tribulations but we are assured that God will compensate us in other ways on earth and in heaven. What a motivating and comforting thought! Doesn't it inspire you to abandon your will to follow Him today?

 

Hunger Interrupted

The Lord will not suffer the soul of the righteous to famish: But he casteth away the substance of the wicked. Proverbs 10:3

Have you been hungry lately? I am talking about a hunger that is so strong that you can think of nothing else. Your body aches and your faculties are sluggish; The only relief is to get some food into your body. And when you eat, what a feeling! Initially, you gobble down the food but then you slow and savor each morsel. You have a renewed appreciation for the tastes that you are experiencing. None of these emotions and feelings compare to those who are starving to death. A dismal situation at best which often results in the body rejecting the food provided to it.

The same situation applies to our soul. As Christians, we often experience times of famine from Christ's blessings. In those times of hunger, we long for his blessings and gobble them up when they reappear. And the peace that comes from savoring the knowledge that God truly loves you! He will not allow us to perish but will allow us to hunger for his blessings. And what a sweet blessing when they appear! Sadly, the opposite occurs with the unbeliever - he rejects or ignores the blessing provided.

Are you going through a desolate phase in your relationship with Christ? Cry out to Him and plead with Him to restore your relationship. The restoration is such a cleansing experience that will strengthen your relationship and allow you to savor every morsel of his love!

 

Higher Math

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding. For by me thy days shall be multiplied, and the years of thy life shall be increased. Proverbs 9:10-11

As a child, I laughed at my father's complaints about the "new math" being taught in school. He didn't see a need to change the fundamentals since they worked just fine for him. In reality, it was nothing new, just a different way of presenting the fundamentals of math. However, the verses above have caused me to wonder about a "different" math since it is not new but definitely different than anything I had ever been taught. Taken out of context, the verses above imply that we should see Christians outliving sinners by years. Sadly, that is not the case but we see Christian lives snuffed out at an unseemly early age. Was the math wrong or was I missing something? Yep, you guessed it - I was missing something. God's math and my math were not the same.

Jesus enlightens us in John 10:9-11. A key phrase is "I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly." By having Christ in our life, we have abundant or an increased life not necessarily a longer life but a better life. I will try to explain - while Christians are still faced with the challenges of life, there is a difference in their outlook and disposition. While they may be going through some tough times, they know on whom they trust. Paul sums it up best in Romans 8:35-39:

Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? As it is written, For thy sake we are killed all the day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter. Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us. For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Paul defines the higher math achieved by believing in Christ. As a believer, I am always invigorated to face the challenges of life knowing that the love of Jesus Christ is with me through it all. He has multiplied the peace and contentment within me that goes beyond any mathematical equation!

 

Teacher's Pet

For whoso findeth me findeth life, and shall obtain favor of the Lord. Proverbs 8:35

In school we envied the teacher's pet. They always got special privileges and were given the benefit of doubt when they were on the border line in making the next higher grade. It was obvious the special relationship that the student enjoyed based upon their favor with the teacher.

We have the same opportunity with the Lord. Talking about the opportunity for special privileges! Solomon promises these favors to those who seek wisdom. Solomon spends many chapters in Proverbs discussing the merits of seeking wisdom and the benefits bestowed upon those who do. But this one takes the cake - favor of the Lord! What a strong relationship we will enjoy through Christ when we commit our lives to seeking Him. The closeness achieved through active seeking far exceeds anything on earth.

Quit worrying about your past and your failures. Rather focus on seeking God and he will reward you with a special relationship that will make others envious. Just like the little girl in fifth grade who always got head-of-the-line privileges. God will place us first in his blessing as well!

 

Steer Clear

And beheld among the simple ones, I discerned among the youths, a young man void of understanding, Passing through the street near her corner; and he went the way to her house, Proverbs 7:7-8

Solomon spends the majority of chapter 7 describing in detail the downfall of a man who surrenders to the temptation of a woman (Proverbs 7:6-27). He goes in great detail of the evil that besets the young man based upon his gullible acceptance of her temptations.

When I read of the description, I go back to the opening verses above. How did the young man fall into such temptation? It all starts with him passing by her house. And we do the same today. We are well aware of the evils that we should avoid. But we reason that we are capable of resisting them and it won't harm us just to "pass by" or be in the vicinity of such activities. However, the longer we are around them, the less evil they seem. And soon enough, we are justifying our actions by saying that "everyone does it" or "it's not a big deal". Before we know it, we are knee deep in the filth of the world.

The best defense against falling victim to such temptation is to stay away. Paul warns us in 1 Thes 5:22 to "Abstain from the appearance of all evil". He didn't say to not partake in evil but even the appearance of evil. So I encourage you to steer clear of evil lest the temptation over comes our good intentions.

 

Never Alone

When thou goest, it shall lead thee; when thous sleepest, it shall keep thee; and when thou awakest, it shall talk with thee.    Proverbs 6:22

Have you ever felt alone? While I am surrounded by people all day long, I have had occasions where I have felt totally alone: no one that supports or cares for me. While we all have loved ones that care for us, they can not physically be with us all the time. It is during those times that feeling homesick, forsaken, lonely, not understood and a ton of other emotions gather in your mind. It can become frightening when you are trying to make a stand for a just cause and you see no support around you. It is enough to break down the strongest individual - unless you stop and remember.

Solomon describes above the support that we get. It is not situational, periodic or conditional. It is all the time, even when we sleep! When we are filled with the Holy Spirit, we are never alone. This is what I was referring to above in that we need to stop and remember. No matter how lonely or dark the situation may be, we always have the Holy Spirit with us. Paul says it much better than I in Hebrews 13:5-6, "Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee. So that we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me."

What a comfort! To know that he will never leave or forsake us. While we may be miles away from supportive loved ones, He is always there. We are never alone again in this world.

 

No Fear Of Secrecy

For the ways of man are before the eyes of the Lord, and he pondereth all his goings.  Proverbs 5:21

The Lord sees all that we do and nothing can be done in secrecy. Since we are repeatedly told this throughout Proverbs and Jesus affirms it in all four Gospels, why do we continue to struggle with secrecy? Why not take a more spiritual approach to our daily life?

If we will truly commit our efforts to the Lord, what a difference it will make! David states in Psalms 37:5, "Commit thy way unto the LORD; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass." What a blessing to know that when we commit and trust, it will happen! Too often, we try to force situations into achieving our desired results. But if we will commit our efforts and trust in him, it will happen. Does it mean that it will happen as we want it to? Not necessarily, but if we seek him, He will lead us to accept His will, not ours.

Let's give up the double-life of secrecy and commit ourselves to His will. We will no longer live in fear of being "caught" but rather in confidence of success!

 

Straight And Narrow Path

Ponder the path of thy feet, and let all thy ways be established. Turn not to the right hand nor to the left; remove thy foot from evil.     Proverbs 4:26-27

We often laugh at characters in the cartoons who are wondering aimlessly and suddenly get a surprising jolt back into reality. Likewise, we cringe during horror movies when the victim is seemingly unaware of the dangers until it is too late. Our own lives are similar. We often wonder aimlessly through life without a focus or mission with each day. Then we are surprised when we have failed to follow God's teachings. We often say, "How did I get so far from God?". Often it is a gradual loss of focus.

Solomon advises us to stay focused on our path - no deviations to the right or left! When something is a priority, we tend to keep it on our mind continuously. However, as we become distracted with the challenges of day-to-day life, we tend to loose focus on Christ. He must be a part of our daily lives, not just during church services. When he is a part of our daily decisions, we won't wander from his guidance. It is the assumption that we can perform small tasks without his supreme guidance that tends to build confidence in our own abilities. As our confidence grows, our dependence on Christ diminishes. Then, before you know it, you are far away from the path of righteousness and wondering how you got there!

Let's keep our dependence upon him for all decisions - no matter how small. If he is involved in the simple decisions, he will be around for the hard ones! David clearly understood and expressed it well in Psalms 5:8, "Lead me, O LORD, in thy righteousness because of mine enemies; make thy way straight before my face." David knew the value of walking the straight path. And he knew the only way to achieve this feat was for the Lord to lead him. Let's make the same commitment to be lead by the one who is never surprised!

 

I Can Do It By Myself

In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.     Proverbs 3:6

As parents, we are thrilled when our toddlers perform a feat for the first time. As teenagers, we felt independence when we could do things on our own and the sense of accomplishment continues as we grew older and started our families. As a man, nothing is more humiliating than having to ask for help.

Solomon has a totally different approach above - acknowledging Christ in everything we do. I must admit he is correct. There have been numerous occasions where I have tried to do things my way, only to get to the point where I had everything in such a mess that it was impossible to proceed. Only when I have exhausted my efforts do I call upon God to help. It would have been so much easier if I had started by calling upon Him prior to starting the endeavor! And the results would not have been such a disaster! It would seem that we have enough experience to know the right way to approach decisions - seeking His will first. But we continue to re-learn the same fact.

Join me in committing our decisions to Him. He will never steer us wrong!

 

Hear And Believe

So that thou incline thine ear unto wisdom, and apply thine heart to understanding.    Proverbs 2:2

Have you ever talked to some one that is not paying attention? It is so frustrating! Even more so if you are trying to explain the process of performing a task. And afterwards, they look at you blankly and ask simple questions that are indicative that they did not pay attention. A strong resemblance to my children sometimes. Sadly, a strong resemblance of me when it comes to living a Christian life.

Solomon describes a two part process above: hearing wisdom and applying to your heart. The first phase of the process is listening for the right things - not everything that comes along but those nuggets of wisdom scattered among background noise of everyday life. We often tune out everything vice selectively listening to those things that strengthen our walk with Christ. (Kind of like planning your upcoming week vice listening to the sermon). We need to actively seek out those items associated with strengthening our Christian life and discard the chatter of the world.

The second phase is applying it to our heart so that we understand it. We can attend the most inspirational service, hear the most invigorating sermon and walk out the door. If we do not apply it to our heart, come Monday morning, it was a waste of time. We have to apply what we learn to our hearts so that it changes our perspective and modifies our behavior. Otherwise, the pastor's effort was for naught. The same applies to daily reading of the Bible. If we only read and do not apply it to our heart, it will provide minimal results.

I encourage you to seek out those nuggets of wisdom and apply them to your life. The results will be physical, spiritual and emotional change. The results are proportional to your effort. Join me today in not only hearing but applying God's word to your life.

 

Active Rejection

My son,  if sinners entice thee, consent thou not.     Proverbs 1:10

As children, my boys were adept at providing an excuse for why they had done wrong. While to an adult the reasoning was sometimes comical, it was always obvious they knew better. The same is true for us as Christians. We love to use the term "peer pressure" to justify our actions. But Jesus knows our heart and he knows better. We may try to convince ourselves but we know that the Spirit convicts us of our actions.

Solomon directs us to refuse. Not try to reason or justify our actions, simply refuse. In chapter 4, James provides us strict warnings regarding our attempts to please our worldly desires while trying to be a Christian. The key verse is James 4:7, "Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." Both verses require action from us; refuse and resist. We can not remain true to Christ in a passive mode.

Don't expect the heavens to open and angels to sing every time we resist temptation. Look at Joseph in Genesis 39 - he resisted temptation by his master's wife. An admirable thing to do but more importantly he knew he would sin if he submitted to the temptation. And the reward for his resistance? Being thrown in prison. He had risen to being the overseer of all that his master owned to being thrown in prison. What a reward for doing the right thing! But look closely at Genesis 39:21-22. "But the Lord was with Joseph and showed him mercy and gave him favour in the sight of the keeper of the prison. " What a blessing to know that the Lord will be with us and show us mercy when we resist the sins of this world.

And we know how the story goes - Joseph moves onward and upward to be over all of Egypt. Quite a lofty change from being over a household, as a slave. Jesus has great plans for us as well. We need to demonstrate our commitment to him and he will reward our actions in due time.