What Are You Wearing?

 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
Proverbs 31:25

Fashion is a major factor in our daily decision of what to wear. While we may not be obsessed with fashion, few of us desire to be viewed as "Out of Fashion". We all have a tendency to want to "fit in" with our peers when it comes to fashion.

King Lemuel describes fashion in quite a different way in the verse above. His description is not of something that you change daily but rather how your peers view you. It has nothing to do with the price, material or colors but it has everything to do with the designer. For only God can design the appropriate "clothing" for us to be seen as one of His own. While John the Baptist was clothed in camel hair and skins (Mark 1:6), he was praised highly by Jesus (Mathew 11:11) for what he wore.

What are we wearing today? Are we showing our peers the design by the Spirit? Galatians 5:22-24 gives us the shopping list we should use when deciding what to wear. Are your garments tattered? Worn? Not matching your proclamations? If so, seek the Master who will give you the freshest, cleanest garments to show off to your peers!

 

Slap Yourself

 If thou hast done foolishly in lifting up thyself, or if thou hast thought evil, lay thine hand upon thy mouth.
Proverbs 30:32

We often view slapping someone as a humiliating form of correction. And I believe Agur viewed it in the same manner. He warns us to correct ourselves when we have done foolishly or thought evil. What a concept: self-correcting discipline! Maybe if we corrected ourselves, God would not have to punish us for our wrong doing!

The first step of correction is recognizing the error of our ways. Which is followed by correction. While Agur's suggestion of slapping ourselves may work, I can't imagine seeing people walking around slapping themselves each time they do wrong. Many of us would never get anything done but slapping ourselves and walking around with puffy cheeks!

However, there is a more subtle and effective method to correct our errors - prevention and elimination. Prevention is achieved by studying and following God's plan for our behavior in the Bible. Elimination is achieved by seeking His forgiveness. The choice is yours - repeatedly slap yourself or seek Him.

 

Inquisitive Care

 The righteous considereth the cause of the poor: but the wicked regardeth not to know it.
Proverbs 29:7

How often are we proactive in caring for others? Too often, we prefer a passive approach to helping others - we prefer to donate our money in an effort to make the situation go away rather than becoming involved in the situation. Rarely, do we take the effort to understand the situation and strive to provide support in a non-monetary fashion. It requires us to expend our time and effort to get to know the individual's situation rather than simply making a monthly allotment that allows us to feel good.

Solomon did not say the righteous simply gave money. Instead they considered the cause. In other words, they carefully meditate upon the situation. In order to do such, we must fully understand the situation - a personal approach is required. While it is easy to identify those who are poor or severely sick, there are many around us who are suffering from other issues that are not readily visible. And the only way to understand the situation is to get to know the individual. I am always amazed at the challenges people face as I get to know them. While the issues may not be visible, almost everyone has challenges they are struggling with on a daily basis.

What a better way to show God's love than to show others that we care for them. And the only way to achieve this is through inquisitive care. Get to know those around you - you can lighten their burden while sharing His love with them.

 

Wasted Prayers

 He that turneth away his ear from hearing the law, even his prayer shall be abomination.
Proverbs 28:9

Have you ever had the feeling that no matter how hard you prayed, your prayers were not being heard? No matter how intense and fervent your prayers, they seemed useless? Is that God doesn't care? Have you used up your prayer minutes on frivolous prayers only to run out when you really need them? The answer, of course, is no. God will always hear and answer the prayers of his children.

However, Solomon cautions us above that there are requirements to be met in order for our prayers to be heard. Zechariah describes such a situation best in Zechariah 7:9-13. When we refuse to listen to God's commandments, he refuses to listen to us. Pretty simple concept but not easily applied in our instantaneous world. We want to ignore Christ during the week, zip into church on Sunday and expect instantaneous answers to each and every of our prayers. Communication is a two-way street. We must listen as well as speak. If we fail to listen to His guidance, why should we expect Him to listen to our requests?

David sums it up best in Psalms 66:18 - If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will not hear me. I need to cleanse my heart first or my prayers are wasted. Let's get our priorities straight and do our part before expecting God to do his. If we take the first step to forgiveness, our relationship will be restored!

 

Evil Envy

 Wrath is cruel, and anger is outrageous; but who is able to stand before envy?
Proverbs 27:4

Solomon paints a grim picture of both wrath and anger. We have seen first hand the effects of both when they are out of control. Everyone within hearing distance are negatively impacted by the outburst and the physical response that accompanies the loss of control. No matter how nice the person may normally behave, the outburst will be permanently etched in our memory and associated with the individual.

And yet, Solomon supersedes such behavior by envy. While we may be quick to counter that while we may be slightly envious, we have never behaved in such a manner. But have we? Our thoughts and behavior are driven by our emotions. We respond to people based upon our perception of them. If we are envious of their possessions or position, can we honestly say that we treat them as Christ wants us to? Or do we allow our envy to overcome our response to these people? While our response may not be as dramatic as the angry outburst, our actions have the ability to adversely impact those around us.

Can we honestly say that we follow Jesus' second greatest commandment: And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. Matthew 22:39? Not if we have envy in our heart. Rid yourself of evil envy and you will have room to share God's love with others.

 

Toilet Paper In The Trousers

 Whose hatred is covered by deceit, his wickedness shall be shewed before the whole congregation.
Proverbs 26:26

Nothing is so humiliating as coming out of the bathroom with toilet paper hanging from your trousers! While you are oblivious to the embarrassment, other snicker behind your back (literally). Finally, someone is kind enough to discreetly tell you of your mishap. Depending on how long and how many people have seen your situation, your level of embarrassment escalates. Quite a humbling experience for any one that has had the misfortune of such a mistake!

Solomon warns of even worse humiliation above. Careful scrutiny of the verse depicts a scene in a church where one's wickedness is displayed before all to see. Here is one, among his fellow church-goers, being exposed for what he truly is - wicked. How humiliating to see one that espouses to be a Christian being shown for what he truly is. Scary? Realistic? The answer to both is yes.

While we may be tempted to build a laundry list of "prime candidates" within our own church, perhaps we should turn the search lamp internally. Is there something in your life that would be humiliating is known by your Christian peers? Sadly, God already knows. The only solution is to humble yourself before him and seek His forgiveness.

While fear of humiliation may not be the best motivator for Christian living, it should be a factor in considering our walk with our Savior. Do you have a sheet of "TP" creeping out of your trousers? If so, seek Him today and he will wash away all sin and rid us of the evidence. It is better to have a clear conscience and boldly face forward without the constant looking over our shoulder for the humiliation that may be following us.

 

The Purification Process

 Take away the dross from the silver, and there shall come forth a vessel for the finer.
Proverbs 25:4

When we think of fine jewelry, we always want the best. The purer the silver or gold, the happier we are! No one wants a cubic zirconium ring - for they know, even if others don't, that the ring is a fake. And the sentimental attachment diminishes with impurity.

The same is true with our lives. While we may not enjoy the process, God strives to drive out the impurities in our life so that we may be more appealing to our Saviour. Paul describes it best in 2 Timothy 2:20-22:

But in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and of silver, but also of wood and of earth; and some to honour, and some to dishonour. If a man therefore purge himself from these, he shall be a vessel unto honour, sanctified, and meet for the master's use, and prepared unto every good work. Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.

God does not desire for us to be wooden vessels of dishonor but rather vessels of the purest silver and gold. And the only way we can achieve this feat is to pursue the traits listed by Paul above. As we purify ourselves, we become more valuable to our savior. As we become more valuable, we will be used more to accomplish His will. While the purification process is painful, the gain is much more than can be imagined in this life alone!

 

Visual Instruction

 Then I saw, and considered it well: I looked upon it, and received instruction.
Proverbs 24:32

In the preceding verses, Solomon observed the calamity of others. And he learned from their mistakes. Can we say the same? Or are we too busy telling others of the dramatic events to take notice of any lessons that are applicable to us? The enticement to gossip sometimes overwhelms our ability to visually digest what we have just seen. We are too busy sharing with others to stop and take notice of the real situation.

Notice what Solomon did after seeing the event - "he considered it well". He didn't say that he spread the juicy details or looked down his nose. No, he carefully considered the ramifications and recognized that but by the grace of God, he could have been the victim of such an event. And so could we. We need to carefully consider each situation we behold and ensure that we learn from others mistakes. The visual instruction of their destruction should serve as a grim reminder that we need to be firmly rooted in God's grace and plan for us.

 

Shopping List for Eternal Life

 Buy the truth, and sell it not; also wisdom, and instruction, and understanding.
Proverbs 23:23

I always prepare a shopping list for groceries. It keeps me focused on what is needed and prevents the spurious purchases. More importantly, if keeps me from returning home without the important items that I needed. Nothing is more frustrating than getting home, only to realize that one item is missing from the dinner ingredients list!

Shouldn't we do the same for our spiritual life? Solomon gives us the key ingredients above. Perhaps a list would keep us from being distracted with the glitz and glitter of the worldly items? Perhaps we wouldn't forget a key ingredient like "understanding" as we go through our busy day? More importantly, we wouldn't arrive at Judgment Day short a key ingredient!

Post a list of key ingredients visible all day long so that you are reminded where our constant focus should be! I am certain your day, and life, will go smoother!

 

Youthful Indiscretion

 Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of correction shall drive it far from him.
Proverbs 22:15

Too often, we view this verse in a physical manner. Solomon gives us parents the authority to physically correct our children. And while that may be true, I believe he was giving us guidance as Christians, not just as parents.

As new Christians, Paul refers to us as "babes in Christ" (1 Corinthians 3:1-3). As such, we have to grow and mature as Christians. Paul further explains in Hebrews 12:5-7, that the Lord corrects them that he loves. As well Solomon tell us in Proverbs 3:12 the same thing.

So before we get overjoyed in our physical responsibilities as parents, we need to humble ourselves as children of Christ. We should not be surprised when God corrects us for youthful indiscretions. For it is His way to correct us and to help us mature as Christians.

 

Rose-Colored Glasses

 Every way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the LORD pondereth the hearts.
Proverbs 21:2

It is so easy for us to see faults in others that we fail to see our own mistakes. (Matthew 7:2-5) Perhaps it is because we have on rose-colored glasses when we look at our own behavior. You remember those glasses in the 80's that made everything look rosy? And yes, there was even a country song about it! Unfortunately, we laugh at such a spectacle, but the second half of the verse is very sobering.

No matter how successful we are at explaining away our poor behavior, God knows. He see our actions, but more importantly, he knows our heart. While we may have a fake smile on our face, he knows how we feel in our heart. Would our actions be any different if we knew that those around could see our heart? Would the feigned concern, little white lies and evil thoughts leave our repertoire when we realized that others could see our intentions?

Let's toss the rose-colored sunglasses and see ourselves as we really are - He does. Seek forgiveness from Him and we will no longer have anything to hide!

 

Perfect Revenge

 Say not thou, I will recompense evil; but wait on the LORD, and he shall save thee.
Proverbs 20:22

What is the normal response when we have been wronged? Recognition turns into anger and anger morphs into plotting revenge. We become obsessed with it - from planning how to exact the perfect revenge, anticipating their response and projecting how satisfied we will feel with their downfall. Sounds familiar, right? Not according to Solomon.

Solomon encourages us to wait on the Lord and we will be saved. I have often imagined the powerful hand of God swooping in out of nowhere to smack my nemesis senseless when wrongfully accuses me of wrong-doing. Or perhaps a flame will erupt in her hair as she knowingly cheats you of your hard-earned money? Sounds like a sensational saving by our Savior - right? Plus, with His miraculous intervention, we can witness to others of His omnipotence at the expense of our enemy! What a wonderful twofer!

Unfortunately (or fortunately) I have not been blessed with such a saving by my Savior. But I have come to recognize that the saving may not be in the form of protecting me from evil doers as much as protecting me from sinning! When I try to exact revenge upon my enemy, I rarely (or never) have a Christian approach to it! It is just too personal to get God involved!!

Jesus's approach was a little different (Matthew 5:43-48). He didn't support getting even, rather He directs us to take the high road and love them. Love them? Yep. I have followed His guidance (on occasions) and shown love vice revenge. While it is difficult to do, it is entertaining to see the bewilderment of the individual when he realizes you are showering him with love vice revenge. No matter how many times he tries to hurt you, when you respond with love you confuse your enemy until he finally realizes he is not dealing with an ordinary foe. Indeed he is dealing with one saved by the Lord!

Isn't it only fitting, that we who have been shown love by the One we previously hated and rejected demonstrate it to others? Jesus waits patiently and with love until we overcome our bewilderment and surrender to Him. What a better revenge to show our enemies than the example shown by our Saviour to us?

 

Wisdom Isn't Rocket Science

 Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that thou mayest be wise in thy latter end.
Proverbs 19:20

Solomon gives us instruction on how to become wise. Interestingly, he doesn't mention that we have to prove our wisdom. No profound statements or lofty writings are required to impress others. No, simply hear and receive instruction. Yes to a little more than just hearing - we have to apply the instructions to our lives.

Simply hearing how to build a rocket does not make me a rocket scientist. Likewise, hearing how to be wise is not the same as having wisdom. We have to put into practice what we hear. If I built a "functional" rocket in my back yard, I could be considered a rocket scientist (and one who sleeps on the couch!). Likewise, if we practice making wise decisions, we will be viewed as wise.

Don't confuse pride with performance. Just because I can impress you with my ability to calculate the gravitational force on the moon's surface doesn't mean I am a rocket scientist. I simply remembered the equation from college physics! The same is true with wisdom. Just because I can quote profound statements does't make me wise. But if I behave in a wise manner in my daily activities, I will be accounted as wise.

Aren't we glad wisdom is not rocket science? We simply have to apply the principles given to us in His Word to achieve wisdom. Even a dummy like me can achieve that!

 

Seperate and Distinct

 Through desire a man, having separated himself, seeketh and intermeddleth with all wisdom.
Proverbs 18:1

Solomon has captured salvation in one verse! While we recognize Solomon as one of the smartest, it took me quite a while to fully understand his message in one simple verse. Our Savior offers salvation to all who will accept it - but we must desire it. As Solomon points out above, it starts with us taking the first step to desire His love and forgiveness. And the second step is separation - we can't be what we were before and be a new creature. We must forsake our old self and separate our actions from those before (2 Corinthians 6:17). As a result, our "old" friends will not normally accept such "new" behavior (Luke 6:22).  While the challenge may seem daunting, when we "seek and intermeddleth" with Him, we are protected by a love greater than anything known on this earth! (Romans 8:37-39)

While we may not be wise or a great orator like Solomon, when we accept Christ's salvation and live our lives according to his will, we will be a separate and distinct witness of His love. What a better witness than each of us living a separate and distinct life for Christ?

 

Dry Bread

 Better is a dry morsel, and quietness therewith, than an house full of sacrifices with strife.
Proverbs 17:1

When I think of a "dry morsel", I imagine a piece of steak, tough as leather, that provides no satisfaction to the dining experience. However, Solomon is alluding to the atmosphere vice the food being served. Have you ever tried to enjoy a dinner when the tension was so thick you could cut it with a knife vice the steak? No matter how delicious the meal, how wonderful the presentation or the level of service - a meal served with strife and anxiety is not palatable. And it doesn't just affect those in contention but everyone at the table.

Paul tells us to not let the sun go down on our anger (Ephesians 4:26). Perhaps we should modify this rule to our feelings about others and agree not to sit down to dinner with strife amongst us? It will make the driest of bread seem delicious as long as there is laughter and love being served with it.

 

Dastardly Deeds

 The LORD hath made all things for himself: yea, even the wicked for the day of evil.
Proverbs 16:4

Some people are so evil that I often wonder why God doesn't strike them down. Some of the more despicable acts are flashed across the news and we can only shake our head in sadness that such dastardly deeds would be done by one human against another. While I will never understand what motivates someone to do such horrific acts against another, I often wonder what God thinks of our actions.

Solomon's verse above provides solace amidst the turmoil. God is still in control. While we may never understand why some things are allowed to occur, we can rest assured that God is aware and is in control. I have resigned myself to the fact that I can't understand my own thought process at times, why should I expect to be able to explain others?

We gain peace in the storm when we commit ourselves to God and allow Him to lead us vice us trying to judge others.

 

Foolish Folly

 Folly is joy to him that is destitute of wisdom: but a man of understanding walketh uprightly.
Proverbs 15:21

While silliness in toddlers is amusing, it is not amusing in adults. Nothing is more disturbing than watching adults behave in a childish manner. It is hard to accept such behavior due to the frustrations and anger that follows to those around. Unfortunately, the childish adults fail to recognize the error of their ways and just assume that frustrations directed towards them is not their fault. They seem to be oblivious of the consequences of their actions.

Solomon cautions us to behave in a proper manner since we are a reflection of Jesus to those around us. When we behave in a manner that is "uprightly" we reflect His love within us and have a positive influence on those around us.

Join me in keeping guard on our behavior so that we are viewed as a positive influence to those around us vice fools wrapped in their own folly.

 

The Fountain of Youth

 The fear of the LORD is a fountain of life, to depart from the snares of death.
Proverbs 14:27

It is rumored that Ponce de Leon discovered Florida while searching for the Fountain of Youth. While he never found the restorative powers of the Fountain of Youth, he did discover something that continues to be a favorite destination of many people.

Many today mirror the tale - we are in constant search of an elusive goal but yet find treasures that we never sought. Sadly, we are focused on the insignificant rather than focusing on what is important. Solomon tries to refocus our attention on what is important in the verse above. Simply, put God first. If we seek Him, he will enlighten us to become better Christians. As a result, our attention will be on the items with an eternal value vice the fleeting fancies of this world.

Find the fountain of life, as promised by Jesus in John 4:14 - But whosoever drinketh of the water that I shall give him shall never thirst; but the water that I shall give him shall be in him a well of water springing up into everlasting life.

Have you found your fountain?

 

 

Wise Investments

 A good man leaveth an inheritance to his children's children: and the wealth of the sinner is laid up for the just.
Proverbs 13:22

We struggle daily to ensure that we manage our assetts wisely. Many continue to worry if they have saved and invested enough to ever truly retire without forsaking their standard of living. For the fortunate, they will be able to provide an inheritance for their children. If truly fortunate, some may be left for their grandchildren.

Solomon alludes to the blessing of leaving an inheritance to grandchildren. However, I am not convinced he is solely referring to financial blessings. One of the greatest gifts I received from my father and have passed on to my children has no monetary value. It can't be sold, traded or mortgaged but I value it above any other gift from my father - his reputation as a honest and just man. While I respected him while he was living, it was not until people came to pay their respect did I fully understand the positive impact he had on so many people. More than a gift, it was a legacy to pass down to my children and their children.

Too often, we get so focused on monetary gains that we fail to see the cost to our reputation. Regardless of our financial worth, what is the value of our reputation? By seeking God first, we will build a reputation beyond rebuke. And the rest will take care of itself as promised by Jesus in Matthew 6:33 - But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

 

Loose Lips

 Lying lips are abomination to the LORD: but they that deal truly are his delight.
Proverbs 12:22

The World War II slogan of "Loose Lips Might Sink Ships" was intended to protect our sailors by preventing information from reaching the enemy. Solomon provides a stern warning to us on failing to watch our lips above. While the war campaign slogan had an immediate impact upon the lives of our sailors, Solomon's warning has a much farther reaching impact - the lying lips will have an impact upon where we spend eternity.

We can not have a heart of gold and lips spewing out lies. It is like having salt water and pure water in the same glass - the pure water becomes salty. As we pursue a closer walk with God, let's ensure that we keep a close watch on what we say. Our lying lips will hinder our ability to show the love of God to others.

 

Rewards Program

 The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life; and he that winneth souls is wise.
Proverbs 11:30

Many credit cards have creative ways to reward you for your purchases. The more you spend, the more rewards you receive. I think there may be some logic lost in that process. However, it is not a new thing – the Bible has its own rewards program.

James 5:20 tells us,  Let him know, that he which converteth the sinner from the error of his way shall save a soul from death, and shall hide a multitude of sins. What greater reward can we receive? To save a soul from eternal death, just one, is unfathomable. When we allow the Holy Spirit to lead us, he will use us to lead others to Christ. And you get the bonus of knowing that a multitude of sins are forgiven! Can your credit card do that?

Perhaps, the question should be: “What is in your heart?” It will bear fruit. With the right heart, the rewards are immeasurable.

 

Foolish Lies

 He that hideth hatred with lying lips, and he that uttereth a slander, is a fool.
Proverbs 10:18

This is one of those verses that just reeks havoc with our behavior. We often try to hide our true feelings by being nice to those we hate. Likewise, we gossip and slander those worthy of our contempt. The sad thing is that we thing no one knows our true feelings.

David warns us in Psalms 12:2-3:  They speak vanity every one with his neighbour: with flattering lips and with a double heart do they speak. The Lord shall cut off all flattering lips, and the tongue that speaketh proud things:

Even if our enemies don’t know our intentions, God does. So who are we really fooling with foolish lies?

 

 

The Invitation

 She hath sent forth her maidens: she crieth upon the highest places of the city,
Proverbs 9:3

In the first part of this chapter, Solomon describes the invitation from wisdom. It is a graphical depiction of the invitation to each of us to gain wisdom. It mirrors our invitation from our Savior to a new life available only through Him. Each of these invitations required great effort by the inviter. The invited only had to accept the invitation.

Now that we have accepted the invitation to accept Jesus as our Savior, we have become His living invitation to others. By our actions and words, we show the love of Christ to others. I often wonder what type of invitation I am. While I would like to be the impressive, formal invitation that causes the invited to catch their breath as they open the envelope, I often fall short. I feel more like the tattered, torn and smudged invitation that few bother to open. However, I am comforted by the fact that when Jesus chose his disciples, he didn’t choose the affluent, educated individuals with a polished appearance. Rather, he chose the unlikely. And I am proof that He still chooses the unlikely (me) today.

The question is how much effort are we putting into our physical invitation to show Christ’s love to others? When we measure our efforts against those of wisdom’s invitation or our Lord’s invitation, we fall short. Let us remember today that as we interact with others we are delivering an invitation from our Master. Let’s make it impressive vice tattered!

 

 

 

The Choice Is Yours

 Receive my instruction, and not silver; and knowledge rather than choice gold.
Proverbs 8:10

We are sometimes like fish. Have you ever looked at fishing lures? They are shiny, distracting or stink. There is nothing plain about them. And fishermen catch fish using these artificial lures in amazing quantities.

We are often distracted from our true purpose in life by the shiny distractions offered by the world. Who wouldn’t like to be rich? No worries about the mortgage or grocery bills! But Solomon cautions us against the glittering financial attractions of the world. Rather, we are to seek after wisdom and knowledge. Nothing is attractive about the mundane characteristics of knowledge.

Jesus cautions us in Matthew 6:19-21:  Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal: For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.

The choice is yours – will you be distracted by short-term worldly gain or remain focused on the eternal blessings of seeking wisdom and knowledge. If we pursue worldly gain, we will end up like the fish: short term pleasure followed by a payment for our choices. I would rather remain boring and earthly poor rather than forsaking eternal blessings. Wouldn’t you?

 

 

The Slippery Slope of Sin

 Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths.
Proverbs 7:25

Solomon warns us of allowing our hearts to lower its standards to that of sin. In the following verses, he describes the woes of when the sin has matured in our heart. Quite a dreadful picture of what happens to us internally as well as externally when sin has matured in our life.

I don't think anyone awakes in the morning and boldly states that they intend to commit a horrible sin that day. But just as described in the preceding verses, we are incrementally drawn into the filth of sin, sometimes in a manner in which we are not aware. However, once we start sliding down the slippery slope, it takes extreme effort to extract ourselves! The cost to us is sometimes great and affects all aspects of our life - physical, emotional and spiritual.

How do we prevent such pain? As Solomon states in the first verse of the chapter - My son, keep my words, and lay up my commandments with thee. (Proverbs 7:1) If we keep God's commandments in our heart, there is no room for sin. And our heart never takes the first step down the slippery slope leading to sin.

 

The Secret to Long Life

 My son, keep thy father's commandment, and forsake not the law of thy mother
Proverbs 6:20

As a parent, I have often longed for my strong-willed children to memorize the verse above. However, it is hard to expect them to behave any better than I did as a teenager. Part of developing our independence is to challenge authority.

As usual, Solomon is much smarter than I. And Paul elaborates in Ephesians 6:1-3: Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. Honour thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise; That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth. What a novel idea! Honor yields long life! My wife’s grandmother lived to be almost 106 and when questioned for her secret to long life, she quoted Paul’s verses above.

We are often caught up in the latest health and fitness fad to lengthen our lifespan. If we spent less time chasing after better health and more time honoring our parents, we are promised a long life! So, the secret to long life is no secret at all – Solomon and Paul spell it out for us in the scriptures above.

 

 

Take Heed

 And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof; And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me!
Proverbs 5:12-13

It took me a while as a teenager to heed my father's advice. At the time, I thought I knew better. But as I matured, I recognized the wisdom behind the guidance. Unfortunately, we often fail to recognize when we are receiving good advice. We casually dismiss the advice since it doesn't mesh with our plans or desires. Too often, we don't recognize the value of the advice until it is too late.

While it is sometimes difficult to evaluate the wisdom or motive behind advice from our peers or mentors, there is one source that is always reliable - God's word. Whenever we falter in our thoughts, there is one source that never leads us astray.

David's advice in Psalms 16:3 sums it up: Commit thy works unto the LORD, and thy thoughts shall be established. If you have doubts about what to do, seek the advice from the one reliable source and take heed!

 

First Things First

 Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.
Proverbs 4:7

Many of us love to dream and scheme. If I had a penny for each of my get-rich-quick schemes or dreams of instant popularity, I would be a wealthy individual. Unfortunately, life does not work that way. However, this is the time of the year when we tend to make life-changing resolutions to start out the new year.

However, much like my schemes and dreams, I overlook the simplest of facts that causes my house-of-cards dream (or resolution) to crumble quickly when put to the common-sense test. My schemes rarely hold up to close scrutiny. And neither do many of my New Year's resolutions. Why? Because I didn't dig into the details before making great assumptions.

Solomon gives us the clue in the verse above. If we build upon solid principles, our dreams will stand the challenges and scrutiny. Ah! If I would only listen to what I read! If I resolve to seek wisdom vice fame and fortune, I will have the foundation upon which to build by life, not just dreams but in reality. And Jesus encourages us even further in Matthew 6:33 "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you." Pretty simple - focus on the fundamentals and the rest will come from God.

I need to drop the resolutions and resolve to follow Christ. If I put the first things first, the rest will come without wasting time on foolish dreams and schemes. Where are your priorities today?

 

Blinded by Pride

 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
Proverbs 3:5

It is an ageless struggle of married couples - directions to a new location. Husbands refuse to acknowledge they are lost and wives refuse to quit voicing their doubts. Even after maps were replaced with GPS receivers, men still struggle to find their way and women continue to criticize. I often wonder what are the statistics of the number of spousal arguments daily caused by being lost? And the root cause of such arguments? Pride. As a husband, it is sometimes too painful to confess that I have no clue where I am, so I will continue to drive in desperation of getting lucky and finding my destination. I could probably rely on luck if I was consistent in winning the lottery but I have yet to convince myself that I am lucky in any perspective!

Solomon cautions us in the verse above regarding our Christian life. We are tempted to rely on our inherent abilities to determine right from wrong vice following the Lord. While it doesn't make any sense that we would trust our sinful selves vice our Savior, we often have too much pride to confess our inabilities to our Master. Doesn't He know already? Much like your wife can see the street signs when you are lost, your Savior knows when your soul is straying as well. Simply, everyone else can see the error of your way, except you. When you are blinded by pride, you fail to see the obvious.

Confess you weakness to your Savior - he is waiting for your acknowledgement of wrong. And he will forgive us. "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." 1 John 1:9

 

Hurricane Straps for Life

 For the upright shall dwell in the land, and the perfect shall remain in it.
Proverbs 2:21

My first house after leaving home was a mobile home. When we were installing it on my farm, an essential safety element was installing the "Hurricane Straps" so that it would not be blown off the block footing. I laughed at the installer and explained that I was too far from the coast to worry about a hurricane. He just smiled and said to give him a call after the first big storm. It was only a few months later that a chain of thunder storms and tornadoes swept through the area blowing down several pine trees surrounding my new little home. Surprisingly, the trailer remained firmly planted - thanks to the straps!

Solomon promises above that we, as Christians, will endure and not be removed. Yet, it is not by our actions that such accomplishments are achieved. We are assaulted daily by challenges that could easily up-root and blow us away. But we are strapped to permanence by God's strength. Much like the straps that anchored my mobile home, His love encompasses us with protection from the storms of life. When we yield to His will, we are strengthened in our ability stand. Submit to Him and He will protect us against any storm life has to offer.

 

Are You Listening?

 A wise man will hear, and will increase learning; and a man of understanding shall attain unto wise counsels:
Proverbs 1:5

With the start of the new year, many have a long list of resolutions. They see the new year as an opportunity to create the new you. Many of the items require great sacrifice to obtain a seemingly elusive goal of improvement. Solomon provides us with a challenge for the new year as well: increased learning and wisdom. The result? A closer walk with God. I would wager that this goal far exceeds the majority of items on our "improvement list" for the new year. And yet, it starts with a simple act: hearing. However, it is not just hearing but actually taking action upon the words heard. The actions will result in a closer walk with our Savior.

Is God speaking to you? And more importantly, are you hearing? In our daily hectic lives, we often fail to hear His words. They are not blared above the volume of our headsets, they don't come in the form of text messages or dazzling displays upon our television monitors. Rather, he still uses the same format he did with Elijah - the still, small voice. Often, we fail to hear it for all of the worldly distractions. But when we hear it, we know. And you are never the same - whether you choose to obey or ignore, you will remember His words. (John 14:26)

Join me in simplifying our list of resolutions for the new year by putting the most important thing first: Listening to our Savior. He will guide us in all decisions to a new and better you for the coming year!